in my p.e class. She is very shy in front of guys and i dont know how to approach her. I cant say HI to her when i see her in the hallway coz i have never spoken to her before. I really wanna talk to her, but i never find her alone coz she is always wit her friends. Plz help me and oh yeah, im shy in front of girls too soooo.......ya. Plz help. Im afraid she knows that i like her coz i always stare at her.
2006-10-20 16:37:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so in other words BOTH OF US ARE SHY.
2006-10-20 16:40:35 · update #1
she-grade11
me-grade12
2006-10-20 16:54:04 · update #2
hahaha... u r a funny guy.. i like it...SHY guy = SHY gal.... step by step & plz don't tell her in front of the people.. she'll get scared & u'll feel embrassy if she refused u.. so,, slow ..........introduced urself 1st..(u say HI..tat's good) & wat's her feeling.?? was she smile back & know ur name?? just chat wif her if u really want.. start any topic....GAL likes tat thing.. someone who can takes good care of em, & make em use to be.. & then ask her out & tell ur real heart when the time is coming.. (when she agreed to go out wif u, tat's mean she's got a kinda loves...u) don't give up... try & try..
2006-10-20 16:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone has to break the ice! Just smile and say hi a couple of times. Make some eye contact, compliment her if you can work up the nerve. If you hit it off, later you will laugh about how shy you both were.
2006-10-20 16:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kimma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)Try to build up your courage to talk to her and see how she responds to you. If you already suspect she knows that you like her, what do you have to lose?
2)To take some of the pressure off, remember that your impression on her is "55% through body language, 38% the tone and speed of our voice, and only 7% is through what we say." ( http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/flirting.shtml )
I had the same problem as you do--one of my friends even asked about me and my boyfriend, "so . . . how did you two even start dating? You're both so shy!" Start believing you're outgoing and ask her questions that you're interested to know about her. Showing a genuine interest in someone is really flattering, and you'll have no need to fear rejection. Maybe you'll find out as you get to know her that she likes you too.
2006-10-20 16:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could opt for A. The 'outer' reason being the certainty that outgoing people by no skill (by no skill EVER) is conscious shy people like me. besides, (am i egocentric or what) a miles less constructive yet could be random in front of close buddies probable skill as quickly as she helps you to into her convenience zone, you're the two an in depth chum or a achievable spouse. whilst a B-ish style of woman tolerates strangers in her convenience zone, and additionally you're able to by no skill be attentive to regardless of if she treats you as an acquaintance or a chum.(even whilst she seems on the brink of you, she ought to easily be a splash greater accommodating) the main latest reason is the lack to conceal thoughts. whilst speaking coronary heart to coronary heart, a B-ish woman could have her approaches of hiding her actual feeling and performing like she's extremely telling her actual thoughts. An A-ish woman could (blush turn away awkward silence etc) whilst attempting to conceal her thoughts. the secret's to earn her believe. except a guy is a miles less mushy and greater outgoing, he could probable understand what I speaking approximately.
2016-12-16 11:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to talk to this girl, then just walk up to her confidently. Find things in common, but be calm by her and show your true self to her. Good Luck; hope my advice works
2006-10-20 16:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Molly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I sware, this girl, who is a good friend of mine, is really, REALLY shy around guys. I broke the ice and just started talking to her and walking with her to class. I sware dude no joke, she talks to at most 3 guys in my class. (Me included), and she talks to me alot.
2006-10-20 16:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by rh3706 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a lucky girl,to be noticed by you.i'm very,very shy myself.and it's a miracle,if i ever get noticed by a guy.and she has friends,too.i wish i were that lucky.when i was in school,i barely had any friends.i hope you get to talk to her.i'm sure she'll appreciate that you took special notice of her.
2006-10-20 19:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Miss yavatar girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cute. well talk to her, you gotta break the ice, your the man step up and do ur job. jsut go talk to her and her friends. then start saying hi to her, and then takl to her have a deep conversation. trust me it wil work. good luck!! byeee
2006-10-20 16:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tessa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gotta get over your fears dude. Try to approch her by saying hi to her.
2006-10-20 16:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Andy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the perfect couple to help each other get comfortable around the other sex!!!
2006-10-20 16:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by (((uniquely.me))) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋