my boyfriend is really goodlooking and very sexy. he paid for me to have a boob job and he is very happy with them, he likes the barbie kind of girl. so i dye my hair blonde and have long hair extensions. he treats me to facials, getting manicure and pedicure. he is a buisnessman and has been away for a few weeks. since then i have put on a bit of weight. and want to be the skinniest he has ever seen me when he gets back. hes back in december and need some really quick ways of losing weight. he prefers me really skinny so i need to lose any fat i have. pls help i know he will dump me if he sees me with the weight on. this is really important.
2006-10-20 16:36:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
why would i want the boyfriend category i want to lose weight, are you stupid
my boyfriend loves me
2006-10-20 16:41:40 · update #1
im sorry i dont understand what you all mean . my bf loves me enough to make me beautiful and im the one who should be thanking him for doing what hed done for me. its not his fault ive put on weight.
can i have some slimming tips plz.
i think some of the women wish they had a man like mine who would get them boob jobs and tell them what to wear
2006-10-20 16:48:58 · update #2
What the hell is this guy's problem? He might as well just marry a robot if he is that picky. Get as fat as you possibly can to piss him off.
2006-10-20 16:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Zac T 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Barbie is fantasy and not reality. As one who collected Barbies for many years, the idea that living females had to have the Barbie appearance to be attractive was total ridiculous. He is shallow and immature to apply the Barbie standard of beauty to his girlfriend. He will not be a stable person in a long term relationship because he will always be looking for another when you no longer fit his idea of beauty. If he cannot accept your natural physical features because he loves the real you, he like a vulture will pick at your body until you are a skelleton. Looks is not the most important thing when it comes to how valuable your boyfriend is that you are dating. In nature, some of the most beautiful things can be the most deadly. He may start with verbal abuse and proceed into physical abuse or even death if consumed by such unrealistic requirements. It is better to let the bird in freedom fly than left in a cold cage to die..
2006-10-23 06:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by maybf22000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abs! all guys love abs. their is a book The Abs Diet: The Six-Week Plan to Flatten Your Stomach and Keep You Lean for Life By David Zinczenko. Im sure amazon.com has it. any ways it will tell you how to eat. Basically its the no carbs thing. Exercises, Do as much sit ups as you can for 2 min after 2 min of working you abs your not doing any thing that benefits them. AND RUN run as much as you can, when you think you cant run any more remember why your running and how much you love your boyfriend. Running is the key its the best way to burn of the fat. do this every day, work your butt off tell he comes back and I bet your tummy will look 10 times hotter then you do now. Their is defiantly a correlation with girls having nice abs and being amazing in bed too! I wish you all the luck in the world!
2006-10-20 23:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by rebel_slash_hippy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your bf is superficial and is only with you because of how you look. I'm not saying you don't have a fantastic personality, I'm saying he doesn't give two hoots about who you are as a person, only what you look like. And the worst part is you won't find this out until your looks start to fade and plastic surgery can't keep you looking young forever darling. He doesn't love you, get out now and find a real man who loves you for you. HTH : )
2006-10-21 09:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your retarded for letting him change you your the kind of girl that makes guys such asss-holes to woman your degrading yourself and other females. Now dump his asss and found out the real you not some foony barbie wannabe! Not only will you be happier without him You can find a man who is way better then him and will treat you right you deserve that!
2006-10-20 23:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you are dating a very controlling man who is trying to force you to meet an ideal that has impossible dimensions for a woman. The best way to lose weight is cardio and weight training combined. If I was you, I would seek counseling on why you are so dependent on your boyfriend to make you feel good.
2006-10-21 00:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by andy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, i know that this is probably not the answer that you are waiting to hear, but i really think that although you get treated to all of this really cool stuff and feel good about yourself, i think that you are better off withoiut such an influence in your life...i think that everyone should be open to expressing themselves however they feel, and not feeling held back anyone and i think that in all ways a person can be effected, that is is a negative effect!....you shouldnt feel like you have to live up to anyones expectations, and do you really think that he is any kind of person if he thinks that you should!!!....i would reccommend a good diet and some excersice regularly, nothing to make you ill or drugs that will effect you negativcely in any way....good luck with this and please think about what ive said, you are better thjan that!
2006-10-20 23:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol for one he dont love you because if he did he wouldn't care if you put on a little bit of weight. Also he is gone away until December he is probley gone away and doing the same thing for another chic. You need to drop this looser and start to date a real man . His a busness man and most of them types of men are dogs.
2006-10-20 23:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say that you have no brain.
I hate to break it to you sweetheart but your boyfriend does not love you. He probably has a really nice car and a nice house and wants the trophy on his arm. If a man really loves you. He wouldnt change you. If you were unhappy with yourself then he would be there for you to help you. But a guy who changes you just for him to be happy is a loser.
You want to be a slave, buy a collar and go to jenny craig. You want to be a woman, get your own life.
2006-10-20 23:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by ooimmyoo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have discovered something that changed my life and my health. It's not a "diet plan" because you don't skip meals, you can still eat normal foods. This plan is simply "added" to your current daily routine. I have lost 17 pounds and 2" in my waist in 21 days without skipping meals and without exercise. Check it out it really works www.newlifestyletoday.org Pastor J ~ Texas
2006-10-21 01:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by I'm A Believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a talking Barbie, with a IQ to match. He sounds like a shallow controlling egotist that doesn't give a damn about you as real live person. You should dump him and there are plenty of guys that like pretty girls but they have to have a brain.
2006-10-20 23:51:25 · answer #11 · answered by Outside the box 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋