I dated this girl from a town about 10 miles away and we broke up this summer becuase she was cheating on me and i was going to break up with her anyway because she was crazy and kinda a stocker so to speak. Then i was on myspace and she somehow found my page and requesed to be added as a freind. I didint want to be a dick so i accepted and she is coming on to me FAST. i had her on for about 5 days and she leaves me a lot of messages a day. also she always wants to talk to me on msn. how can i politly say i am not interested so just back off, i dont want another relationship.
2006-10-20 16:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her by straightly.. cos we all humans being hate this word "CHEATING"... no one likes tis word... tell her wat u real feeling of her or u just can tell her u're not interested of her... i know tat difficult.. cos u don't want to hurt her but GAL always chase after u if u r not completely tell her wat's u REAL feeling.. they'll thought u got the same feeling as her... so,,, action rite now.. have a good try
2006-10-20 16:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "My girlfriend usually uses my MSN" and remove her from your friends list. There's nothing wrong with cutting someone out of your life after you break up. Especially if she cheated on you.
2006-10-20 23:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by FoodLOVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sure are that she was cheating on you. Could have been out with a friend. Unless you have definite proof, you may be making a big mistake. She should be treated fairly.
Darryl S.
2006-10-20 23:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a little nuts, you might want to take a more direct approach. People like that are relentless and this is just going to keep dragging on if you don't tell her straight out...
2006-10-20 23:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by EllieMae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon you should have been a 'dick'! but since you weren't just tell her that you think she's a really nice person who is going to make some special guy really happy, but you aren't that special guy. but whatever you do please be firm but not mean, don't tell her one thing and then act differently. all the best
2006-10-20 23:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firs im her sart off with small talk then some how talk about how good it was when you guys went out then trail off and say its too bad those day had to end im glad we are still friends
2006-10-20 23:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by C.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any relationship, communication is the key. Be honest and you'll do both of you a favor.
2006-10-20 23:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Canuck Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start ignoring her, tell her that you are seeing somebody else, she'll soon start pestering somebody else, and leave you alone. If she don't, I have an ex-friend, I'd like to introduce her to.
2006-10-20 23:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you don't want to be friends with a cheater and delete her.
2006-10-20 23:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just say very clearly, with English words what you do or don't want. Then see what is there.
2006-10-20 23:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋