There's this girl and I that talk alot. We get along great, and when we talk to each other, we always look right into each other's eyes. We joke, we walk together from our ap world history class, and we just seem to have a good time together. On Thursday, I decided to build up my confidence, and asked her to a movie for Friday, with the "excuse" that I had missed her cross country meet, and I wanted to make it up to her. She said at first sure and said she'd half to call her parents, but then she thought about it and said that she couldn't go because she had to go to a club meeting and had a soccer match. She didn't offer a day we could get toghether though (neither did I, being dumb on the spot). Was I just rejected?? Should I ask her out again next week?? Help, I'm only 15.
2006-10-20 16:27:59 · 10 answers · asked by rh3706 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be optimistic. Maybe she really don't like just for a serious reason.It doesn't mean she rejected you. I'm a lady and with the same with your age. and with our age our parents are strict then, because we are taking care of our reputation... Don't worry she is still your friend, you were worrying because you don't know that maybe you're already falling inlove with her!!!
2006-10-20 16:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must think that you are a cool person if she talks to u and u seem to get along good when u are together. Maybe she is just nervous about going out on a date. Let her know that if you go it will only be as friends, not a date. Just let her know that you like hanging out with her and you thought it would be something fun that the two of you could do..
2006-10-20 23:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by blueimomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be gracious and gentle and ask one more time. Tell her you understand she is busy but wonder if there is a better day for her to have dinner? Tell her you are “not thinking of anything serious, but you would enjoy her company if she has time.” This way she won’t feel pressured and may say yes. At 15, there is a lot of peer pressure to do the right thing… sounds like she may be interested in you but is unsure if it’s the right thing to do. If she says no, don’t think there is anything wrong with you! There will be lots of girls in your future that will say: yes, yes!
2006-10-20 23:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 IT i tolally belive that she didn't shot u down go ahead and ask her out but not with an excuse!!! gurls love it when guys are strait up with what they have to say if she likes you then she will say yes but if she dosen't than just tell her that its ok and that you hope that you can be friends untill she changes her mind .forget the untill she changes her mind part . best of luck and you have my support
2006-10-20 23:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her again for a different day. if she says she has a soccer match then maybe go to her match and ask her if she wants to go to the movies after her game.
good luck sweety.
2006-10-20 23:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was probably really busy. Dont get discouraged. Ask her out again, find out when she has a free night.
2006-10-20 23:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by lpogue2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it is worth a second try. go for it
2006-10-20 23:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should ask her out next week.
2006-10-20 23:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not interested for sure...check if she is hooked up already or likes someone else..
2006-10-20 23:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by gurlie_gurl<33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She hates you... she's with your best friend
2006-10-20 23:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Becky Jo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋