Is Cybersex cheating?

Question

I like to do all the time

Answer 1

I'd think so, that's like emotionally cheating.

Answer 2

Huh-I was going to ask this question to find out what people thought. You beat me to it!

If you're in a committed relationship and your partner feels like it's cheating, then it's cheating. If you're hiding it, it's cheating. If you're partner knows about it and is fine with it, then I'd say no, it's not cheating.

Another question to ask yourself if why you're doing it and how you feel about doing it. Is there a problem in the relationship or are you not in a relationship and are looking for a way to connect with someone?

I think our society and species sometimes uses the Internet as an escape from having to deal face to face with issues and people. It's easier to have cybersex than it is to ask someone out and work on a relationship, but I think it's not as fulfilling.

Anyway, just my two cents.

Answer 3

Put it this way. If your g/f walked in on you having cybersex, would SHE think it's cheating? If the answer is yes, which I HIGHLY suspect it is, then you should probably reconsider your actions. And besides, it's a bit lame, don't you think? Get the real thing, or beat off to porn, or something. Quit trying to shuffle the keyboard and your junk.

Answer 4

This is a very interesting question. Well, I don't deem cybersex cheating because you were not physically involved with another human being but it's still bad in the sense that you were around someone else. I mean if you're married, it looks very bad to your wife that you are not around her giving your love to her. It's not really cheating, but at the same time, it's not very good to be participating in such activity.

Answer 5

It's hurtful because it puts your mind into a space where her love can't reach you and isn't important to you. It diverts your attention away from her, and she feels the vacuum it leaves. Cybering (which finally is boring, predictable and repetitive) hurts an emotional relationship in exactly the same way too much masturbation hurts a physical relationship. Besides, dude, the first time you cyber-bed a hot honey and you find out later it was really a 45-year-old male construction worker, you'll get over any appeal cybering ever had.

Answer 6

Cheating is technically a thing that is in your heart, If you have to ask if it is, it probably is! I would concider Cybersex cheating because the feelings (emotions) are there.

Answer 7

How would you feel if you discovered your partner had been doing the same thing? Or been meeting someone regularly but hadn't told you.
It's emotionally dishonest and shows there is something fundementally wrong in your relationship. You're getting kicks from the secrecy and taboo element of it and deep down know she/he will be hurt when they discover what you do.
Then you will feel ashamed and guilty and quite rightly so.

Answer 8

It's true that most partners would not approve of cyber sex. However, my spouse does not even approve of me masterbating, yet we do not have sex anymore. So, who am I, or you, to please, ourselves, our partner, or the people on this page. For me the person to please is me, and yes I would not cyber sex if I had a healthier relationship, and, no, it is not that easy to end it.

And it's often that cyber relationships just end at screwing. Sometimes intimate and personal details about each others lives come out that have nothing to do with f u c k i n g. Could be about pain or joy. Even, with no sex, these types of intimate discussions would upset most spouses, but they're very humane and meaningful. To call them sinful is a sin to me.

Answer 9

i woudl say no because your not doing anything, is masterbation cheating, but the whole cyber thing does make you a loser, why cyber if you have a real person, if you do nto like her get soemone else

Answer 10

well, if you ain't happy w/ whoever your w/ and you have to resort to cybersex than you should dump that person. it is CHEATING