My bf and I have been together for nearly 15 weeks now. Whenever we are at his place he gets me to sleep on a rather pathetic mattress to me its to soft to him its perfect. I try to tell him that Its making me sore and the blankets are not warm enough. He just says to me "its fine for me, your still stoned from last night" I tried to tell him that cos i worked all day and went to bed late. Please help me what do u think is going on?
2006-10-20 16:06:08 · 11 answers · asked by ca4btts 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to add... I might be pregnant. I find out next week. Is he just really selfish or would he just be taking me for a ride.
2006-10-20 16:07:32 · update #1
OK hun This is only my opinion but it sounds like he doesnt care. Maybe he cant afford another mattress or whatever the reason he should at least say "honey I am sorry, is there anything I can do to make you feel better" A bad mattress also is not a good thing for a pregnant woman (neither is getting stoned Better think long and hard about that) because it can cause all sorts of problems such as back problems. I would seriously try talking to him about this. Oh and dont advertise that you get stoned people might take it the wrong way and try to turn you in or something. Hope this helps just try and talk to him maybe he doesnt know how to be "nice and ask how he can do anything better" so you need to voice your opinion to him and let him know how you feel. If he takes it the wrong way then you dont need him. If he understands then thats all it was, was a misunderstanding. Hope this helps. Good Luck
2006-10-20 16:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by bree_angel_2004 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then sleep on him... Tell him, "You're more firm than this mattress and warmer than these blankets.."
If you're still getting stoned and you might be pregnant... In some states that is considered child abuse.... I'd stop if I were for the baby's sake... Because it could have a world of birth defects and if the court can determine it is from drug usage... You're going to be in a world of hurt!!!
2006-10-20 23:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a lot more to worry about than your sleeping situation. Look at it this way, if you're pregnant there's a 50/50 chance the baby will like that mattress : )
2006-10-20 23:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by carebear 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG! First of all, stop getting stoned if you think you're pg! Second of all, he sounds like a real winner, get rid of him, he doesn't care enough about you! And third, if the test is negative, how about some birth control!?
2006-10-20 23:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by nclaura402 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant see the warning signs yet??? Are you kidding? If you get stuck with this guy, your in for a horrid time of it. He has no empathy for you in the least. What on earth makes you think its going to get any better? GET OUT, or may you pay the price of this mess for years to come!
2006-10-20 23:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be thank-ful that he is showing you his true colors & selfish-side before you get married,(if it get that far). You now can make a decision on if you can live with & deal with this side of him or move on & find something better.
Listen,if he is this selfish to someone who is posibly pregant with his baby,then what kind of father.........husband.......or partner do you think he is going to be later on down the road?
"If", you continue with him (baby or not), dont ever complain to anyone about anything wrong in the relationship or with him. you know what your getting when dealing with this guy so take it or leave it. (not to be rude by any means)
2006-10-20 23:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Scorpio Rising 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's bad. He's not treating you right. Is it something you did or said? I don't know. But if you haven't done anything shady and he's doing that to you, then, you need think about should you really be with this guy. That's just messed up.
2006-10-20 23:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're pregnant stop getting stoned.
2006-10-20 23:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by David W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't care about your feelings.
2006-10-20 23:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats rather psycho.
2006-10-20 23:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋