I need some advice...plz read and provide useful advice?
I have a guy friend that i really like. he is a huge flirt to girls who love public attention, but thats not me. weve had a couple of serious convos and we chat casually almost every schoolday. he is really busy so outside of school the only times weve hung out are a couple times at football games.
Sometimes we will look into eachothers eyes and i get this REALLY intense feeling and it seems like time stops. i think he feels it too cuz its happened several times and sometimes he will come up beside me and catch my eyes and well have one of those intense moments.
we can totally relate to eachother and out of all of his friends he only has a few REAL friends and told me im one of them. i text him and/or call him a few times a week and he responds like 70% of the time...
He likes this other girl, but he told me he likes a lot of girls...could i be one of them? what should i do? thanx!
P.S. Advice on getting him to like me?
2006-10-20 16:04:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, he doesnt have a gf lol
2006-10-20 16:11:22 · update #1
That's a tough one... First of all, he already does like you. He's one of your really good friends. ... But you don't want to lose him as a friend. -- If you can handle the rejection if he says no, I think you should just tell him how you feel.. You never know!-- If he's a cool guy, he's just laugh it off and keep being friends with you!-- It'll be weird between yall for a few days, but eventually you guys will get back to the way things were before...
Or, you could get really drunk and have one of those "talks"... Lol.. Then if he's not feelin it, just be like, "oh, sorry! That was the beer talking!" :) ---- Good Luck!
2006-10-20 16:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by IWantToKnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him your boobs.. No, I am totally kidding.First what you need to do is hang out with him other than at football games. See how he acts in other places besides school and school functions. You want to make sure he is respectful and has some manners. If all goes well and you realize he is a good guy for you, tell him you like him more than a friend. If you two can relate to eachother as you say, than it should not be awkward. If he says no just accept it and just be friends. Do not try to push it.
I hope it helps!
2006-10-20 16:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by curly q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont mind my saying. He sounds like he doesnt know what he wants in a girl and that could be why he likes so many of them. Just be yourself. Think of things to do or say that stand out. I am going to start sounding very old fashioned, but this does work. So here goes;
make him want you, work for your attention. Dont call him, wait for him to call you. If he calls, keep the conversations short and to the point and then tell him that you are busy and have to go. Listen to him, listen to what he has to say, may him feel like he is the only man in the room. There are a lot of girls out there, but not too many women.
2006-10-20 16:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by lpogue2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know one of the guys in the popular clicks, like one of the football or basketball players. From there you can network. The person you get to know will probably ask you to hang out with the other guys like at the mall or eating place. Then from there once they get to know you and think you are cool, the sky is up. But you would have to drop a certain amount of shyness to make that approach to the initial guy. You do have to be careful with the hanging out with multiple guys as people will think you are giving up the goodies in order to be cool with them. The worst thing that could be said is the entire football team ran a train on you whether its true or not, that can be damaging.
2016-05-22 06:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. He may think of you as a close friend, but in these situations you never really know.
Just don't make that first crazy move just yet. Ask his other friends.
2006-10-20 16:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you ...i would try to tell him how i feel before it was to late...but you also have to hope it wont mess up yall friendship....but if he is your tru friend he will take your tru feelings in consideration!!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-10-20 16:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Nazarya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWWWWWWWWWWW
tell him you like him im sure he will like you back!
well unless he has a girlfriend
2006-10-20 16:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by latina chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel
2006-10-20 16:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel
2006-10-20 16:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋