Assuming the girl on a blindate does not totally dislike him from the beginning, what kinds of things can a guy do/say to
make a 1st date successful and also lead to romantic instead of
being friends only. Should a guy ever hug a girl on a blinddate
when he first meets her,? waht about at the end of a date?
Any tips on a first date for a blind date ??
2006-10-20 15:57:11 · 9 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say what she looks like pretty, beautiful NEVER EVER EVER say you look hot.....i repeat NEVER EVER EVER!
Notice her smile her eyes her laugh
ask things about her favorite color, music, ect.
make jokes that are fuuny
be your self
dont lie
dont go on and on about ur self unless she asks you.
hugs are good
end of date no kiss
if you get her number call back if u want to go out again
2006-10-20 16:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mae-Day 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suggest doing something that she likes to do -- like, horseback riding; skating, riding a bike, taking a hike etc. If you're both involved in an activity together, especially if it's something like a team game (double tennis), then you can help each other out, and especially if it's fun for both of you, you can each relax a little bit.
Be supportive, but with a "light touch"; humor is essential-- even dumb jokes are fine (even if she rolls her eyes, it's ok); joke about yourself, too!
"Notice" something about her appearance, and make sure she knows you're "noticing", even if you say nothing. But, do also compliment her looks in some way; and compliment her on her thinking / conversation, as in "....I appreciate your insights on [fill in the blank]...tell me more..." Ask her opinion about something in the current news, but don't be judgmental.
Generally, a hug when you first meet, is a little "too much" -- a real winner is to act as if you're going to shake her hand, but gently lift it to your mouth, and give the back of her hand a light kiss -- make it "light" -- "Oh, so nice to finally meet you!" {only if you really are happy to see her...}.
At the end of the date, take your cue from her about a hug / kiss -- if she's interested, she'll fumble with her housekeys, or otherwise stall before opening the door. She may be too nervous to make the first move, but this is your cue. If you don't give her at least a little hug at that point (and she'll let you know if she wants a bigger one), then she'll feel like "uugh!", as she closes the door behind her.
Good Luck, and Have Fun!
2006-10-20 16:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Joya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dates are tough. you think you got worries, think about her.
What if you turn out to be a creep, a jerk, or worse.
Lighten the mood by making yourself vunerable. No, don[t slip yourself a kryptonite sanwich big guy. Instead, tell an embarressing story where you are the goat. when you do that, she might laugh, she might think you[re a bit of a flake, but she'll be less uptight when the her mind's focus is off her.
and if you put yourself down, that encourages her to lift you back up. come on man, who hasn't done something silly or dumb or outright stupid.
Romance can grow out of friendship. but frienship usually doesn[t grow out of romance. take it slow. have some faith in yourself. you don[t have three eyes do you?
a kiss is nice at the end of the first date but if you can hold off, there is a chance she'll really wonder about why you're not like all the other boys and that give you a bit more mystery and pretige. God speed salior.
frankie chocolate
2006-10-20 16:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all be you. Humor is always appreciated but if it is forced (or not natural) you will be classified as a phony. Allow the evening to dictate your behavior. The first 30 minutes will probably be a little tough, but after you start to notice her sense of humor and what subjects she is at ease with, let that be your guide. If you have a good evening together a hug and a good night kiss would be great.
2006-10-20 16:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, blind dates can be risky because you can say some thing that would turn her off. Try to make her laugh could offend her.
But if you spend time talking to her. Get to know her. Then you would have some ideas of what say on first date.
2006-10-20 16:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from someone on the other side dont try so hard just be yourself if they are going to like let them like you for being you
2006-10-20 16:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by angela b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you a be sincere... Listen to her when she speaks.
2006-10-20 15:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by karessakincaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its penut butter jelly time
2006-10-20 16:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by rudedogsdwweebs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and funny. it is diferent for every girl
2006-10-20 16:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋