I've been seeing this guy for 3 months and in the beginning our feelings were mutual. He would tell me he felt and we IM each other and talk on the phone at nite time for couple hours. We amde time to see each other and we would text message each other. Now he doesnt say much about his feelings or if he misses me, we dont talk on the phone or when im online he doesnt bother to IM and when i leave messages he nver responds back. And days up to 2 weeks at a time he gets a hold of me an ask me to go out.
2006-10-20 15:53:35 · 6 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would seem that he's not interested but it is best to give people the benefit of doubt you never know what's going on in his life with his family, job, or school that could be distracting him from you the best thing would be too talk to him and see how he seem and is there something bothering him
2006-10-20 16:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Young and Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have anything to say to account for his actions... I'd be like next! Actions speak louder than words, and if his neglecting your emotional needs now, especially if he's not even acknowledging the issue, I'd say you couldn't expect for it to get any better, unless he suddenly takes his head out his behind! I'd say its better to cut your losses while your ahead. If he can't talk he gotta walk. Simple as that.
You CAN do bad all by your Damned self... So why stick it out with someone who clearly is comfortable with you doing and feeling bad? Cause thats the position you in now and he ain't helpin matters!
If he can't talk, tell him get lost... He's playing you probably anyway. Absorb it now, and cut his dusty behind now before it swings the other way.
2006-10-20 23:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kontra~Diction 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TO BE HONEST WITH YOU HE'S NO LONGER FEELING YOU LIKE THAT OR HE NEEDS SOME SPACE US WOMEN TEND TO START LETTING THINGS GETTING WAY TO INTENSE AND THAT SCARES GUYS AWAY, BE EASY AND LAY OFF CALLING HIM IF HE'S STILL INTERESTED HE'S TRYING TO GET HIS SPACE AND FILL THE WHOLE THING OUT, AND BY YOU CALLING ALL THE TIME AND IM'ING HIM IS JUST GIVING HIM A REASON TO BE LIKE "WHOA THIS CHICK IS COOL BUT MAYBE SHE'S CLINGY" BE EASY CAUSE BELIEVE WHILE HE HAS YOU ON HOLD (AND YOU ARE HOLDING ON AND HE KNOWS IT!) HE IS SEEING OR TALKING TO OTHER CHICKS, NO REASON TO GET PISSED CAUSE YOUR NOT HIS GIRL JUST BE COOL AND LAY OFF LET HIM MISS YOU! AND IF HE DOESN'T WHATEVER HIS LOSS WHAT'S 3 MONTHS YOU CAN FIND SOMEONE NEW. GOOD LUCK AND STOP OVER THINKING THIS IT IS WHAT IT IS AND DON'T FORGET TO LAY OFF A LITTLE GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-20 23:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by sky g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not seem like he is interested in you. You probably know that deep down. Anyway, are you really interested in him? It does seem that you would be better suited to someone who communicated better and showed you more attention and you deserve nothing less.
2006-10-20 23:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by kirrii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but he might have found another girfriend. When you get the chance, ask him about it.
2006-10-20 22:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope.
2006-10-22 12:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by EL GANGSTA. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋