Tell me the pro's and con's of suicide both religious and health-wise tell me why is it so bad to end my pain my sorrow, why should I live in pain so others can be happy?
2006-10-20 15:42:04 · 27 answers · asked by First L 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
What point is there to live if you are not loved?
2006-10-20 15:54:44 · update #1
I know I am not loved!!!!! People have told me that they do not love me they told me to commit suicide so that they wouldn't see me again I am 12 years old do you think a 12 year ol should hear that now I understand hell and other's pain but like I said should I suffer for other's happiness why should I watch others lead happy lives while sit and suffer knowing the few people I love don't love me back knowing they won't go to my funeral
2006-10-20 16:03:25 · update #2
talk to someone in your family, if not your parents an uncle an aunt, cousin or a friend, if you feel you can't talk to any of your family talk to a teacher, please do so.....everyone is loved by someone, that's a fact, suicide is not an answer, you have your whole life ahead of you and it WILL GET BETTER. GOD BLESS!
2006-10-20 19:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any pro's for suicde, it is the end, it is final and there is no going back. There are lots of cons..
1. what if you attempt it and you fail and end up worse off than you are now.
2. no matter how bad you are hurting be it mentally or physically there is always someone out there who is worse
3. Suicide is devastating to families think of your parents/grand-parents/siblings/friends/spouse etc..
Please seek help and end your pain by being productive and doing something positive please click the link below it has numbers for you to call
http://suicidehotlines.com/ and speak with someone
Faith or religion aside it can only cause more pain for you and those who love you. DONT DO IT. Find the strength inside yourself to get somehelp, don't give up please!
Blessed Be!
It is obvious that many people care about you, look at the people who answered your question we don't want you to die. You have many happy years ahead of you, it will get better, you just have to have faith and love yourself.
You are 12 years old you have much to live for even if it may not seem like it. If you love yourself faults and all others will know this and will love you too. Be brave, be courageous live and see what life brings you. If you need a friend my daughter is 13 and doesn't have many friends either send her a message tiggerlove93@yahoo.com or you can email me just add @yahoo.com to my screen name.
PS. In response to Michelle S, don't give up hope dear being handicapped is not the end of the world you obviously know this as you gave some great advice. Michelle I have been handicapped since birth and live with constant pain, if you need to talk email me.
2006-10-20 15:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by ginwill1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who has attempted suicide before, I can tell you that its not an answer. Its a cowards way out and from a religious point of view its the worse thing you could ever do. I have no idea what religion you are or if you are a christian, but the Passion of Christ gives us a good example. Both apostles Peter and Judas betrayed Christ when he was arrested. But Peter asked for forgiveness and was then made the head of the church. Judas, believed that there was no way he could ever be forgiven. He judged himself and dispaired. He hung himself from a tree, damning his soul forever. All he had to do was ask!
Its also the worst thing you could do to the people around you. I garauntee that people love you. Even if you feel that they don't.
All things pass. Even the dispair you are feeling now will pass. Please talk to someone and get some help. Talk to God and tell him how you feel. He'll listen and He'll answer. Life is so beautful and you only have one. You'll never get it back again.
On the cecullar side, suicides can go wrong. You can suffer a lot. I know someone who shot herself in the head. For whatever reason, she survived and will spend the rest of her life in care as a vegetable. Whatever life she had before, had to be better than that. A lot of suicides go wrong and end up leaving you scared, disabled or worse for life.
Take one second at a time and keep trying. I promise you...the best reward is given to those who stick it out til' the end!
2006-10-20 15:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by aerowrite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets think about this, you want to end your life and don't have regards for other's happiness, not even your our family who will be surely tramatized if you take your life. I dont know how old you are, but you have been old enough to know or realize that suicide is not just a one person experience or pain. When someone decideds to take their own life, for reasons they think are just, they are entering everyone they know into that experience. Suicide is a pain felt by everyone, especially those left behind. No matter how bad things seem, no matter how hard you feel you have failed at what ever the issue is, there is always tomorrow and things can and do get better. There are always people that you can talk to, if you feel you can't talk to your family, go to a church, maybe in a town where no one knows you, so you don't have to worry about others finding out. Get help and please know that things do get better.
2006-10-20 15:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by nanners040477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize how many lives you have interacted with? Do you realize how selfish you are being? How many people out there love you? Even a little? I bet you'd be surprised to know how many people would show up to your funeral! Do you know what? If I knew where you were; I would come. Do you know why I am writing on this pathetic answers thing? Because I lost most of my friends when I was in a car crash and became handicapped. You want to die because you think your friends wouldn't care. Be brave enough to live and I'll be your friend and we can rant and rave to eachother! You still need help from a professional, but hell so do I.
2006-10-20 15:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you or anything about you, but I've asked the same question a million times, and I think that you are the only person who can answer that question. For me, I have three kids. That's my one and only reason for living. I don't believe that we "go" any where when we die or become a ghost and haunt everyone. The way I see it, If your going to do it, your going to do it. If your not, your not, and most people who do, don't talk about it. But if you do, make sure you do it right the first time, I know a few who have tried and lived, one of who is paralyzed from the neck down and has to use an electric wheel chair, that he powers with a straw. If you have any doubts, go see a councilor, it really does help.
2006-10-20 15:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by tinydancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are NO pros for suicide thats for sure. Its a long term solution for a temporary problem. Plus it is the chicken chit way out. Is a sin to commit suicide did you know that? When a person commits suicide they leave the ones that love them wondering what they did wrong or what they could have done different. It hurts those people the most. It is a very selfish act.
2006-10-20 15:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by ky_wild_cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you did it ONE day to early?? Things can change so fast in life and sometimes the very worst things we struggle through prepare us for the curve in the road ahead. I think you are asking for help by asking this question. You know that you don't really want to end your life. I felt this way during the worst part of my life I thought it would never end, but, it does, life is change, change is life. Then, my life took a turn that I could NEVER have imagined in a million years and it is AWESOME!! This too shall pass my friend and you WILL be rewarded for hanging on! Just cry out to some kind of higher power and wait for things to happen. I swear things will happen to make your life better! Everyone of us has a certain amount of suffering we must go through.Divorce, death, loss, finance, who knows, but everyone goes through something at sometime and usually we look back and think I can't believe I almost gave it all up for that! And, how better off we are now. ...Man, you know this is the truth! Maybe you will be able to help someone else on down the road because of what you are learning now through your suffering. We don't have all the answers, but everyone who answered this question cares about you and some of us will pray for you until you can make it on your own. Reach out for help,,,take action,,POSITIVE action to change your life for the better. Peace my friend, Just hold on one more day!
2006-10-20 16:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can seem pretty crappy right now but it's not worth it to give in and let your sorrow take over. There are no Pro's of suicide. This website may help with what you're looking for. Hang in there. Things will get better in the end. If they aren't better then it's not the end.
2006-10-20 15:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it gets better. trust me, it really does. i know im a complete stranger and this doesnt even seem to help the people i'm closest to, but it really will get better.
as for your question:
religiously you are dead and go to hell,
health-wise, you are dead. there is no health.
suicide has no pros. you have to find someone to talk to. right now, find new friends, a counselor.. school counselors are great if you have nobody else, and they can get you more help.
also, no drugs, of ANY kind. caffine included. these just make you feel more depressed when you come down off them. stay away from them, i can see then making situations worse.
the important thing is, you have to dig yourself out of this. other people can help, but you have to take the first step.
2006-10-20 16:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no pros to suicide!! Hell would definitely not be any better!! Also, think of the pain and suffering that you would be causing to your loved ones and friends! I'm sure they would miss you. You may feel hopeless right now, but get some help. Your life is meaningful and you shouldn't end it. Please hang in there!!
2006-10-20 15:50:41 · answer #11 · answered by rocketdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋