My cousin and her ex both go to my school and it's no secret they still have fellings for each other.Even though he's a grade older than me he ended up in my 3rd period class!!I want to try to get them back togethor but I'm really scared because soooo many guys in his grade keep hitting on me!!!What should I do????If he ends up falling for me she'll never talk to me again. Were like sisters and I have no idea what she'll tell people about me????What do I do????!!!
2006-10-20 15:39:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I talk to him WAYYY more than she does!!!
2006-10-20 15:55:52 · update #1
The best thing to do is to just stay out of it and let them work things out for themselves.
2006-10-20 15:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship with your cousin is really that important, you won't even consider being with him. You can't control whether he falls for you or not, but you can control what your response is. If he falls for you or someone else, that's on him. Yeah, it's not good news for your cousin, but it's a lot better than if you fall for him, too. And don't try to get them back together. If it's meant to be it'll work out, if not it won't and you won't be stuck in the middle, left holding the bag.
2006-10-20 22:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by ricktheirish1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family comes first. Boys come and go, so if he starts hitting on you tell him you're not interested, that it would hurt your cousin and you don't want that. If he starts hitting on you you should let your cousin know about it so she won't find it out from someone else. she'll think your hid it from jer and have reason to do so. so, remember whatever you do, put family first.
2006-10-20 22:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid the guy and find some one for yourself and he will either go back to her or find some one new for himself. Good Luck hun
2006-10-20 22:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first why would he fall for u ? or are you hoping he will? i would not try to be cupid if he hits on you talk to your cousin and no problem go for it
2006-10-20 22:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by MeanMax61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it cause it is not your business and if it is meant to be they will find the way back together good luck
2006-10-20 22:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with another guy to make yourself unavailable, then only hang out with you cousin.
2006-10-20 22:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by fyldetillidie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont you have homework?
2006-10-20 22:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋