im very shy. i get scared if they say no and people start talking about me asking that girl out. so how can i ask her out
2006-10-20 15:15:08 · 15 answers · asked by juanito 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey..if you are afraid to ask her..then you're just too young right now.
2006-10-20 15:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask its a yes or no world dont be afraid to get turned down if we all went through life not taking chances we would not be here. This girl might just say yes and make you very happy take a chance and dont worry about what others have to say or do you can do it I know you can. Ask her if she would like to go see a movie and have dinner or go to a dance go ahead make the move be positive. If this one turns you down trust me there will be more out there for you to ask and you just might find the love of your life
2006-10-20 22:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like a girl enough then u shouldn't care if people talk about it or not. & u never know if she'll she no or not, unless u try. if people start talking about it then just say,"Hey at least I had the guts to ask her out." + girls like guys that arn't wimpy.
(well at least all the girls I know don't.) & if ur gonna ask her out then u have to be sweet, funny, & mainly charming. just relax. Life only gets harder. so u might as well try to get use to it now.
*Ember
2006-10-20 22:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are shy you might miss out with a chance of a lifetime. When you ask her keep your composure, just don't think about it. Sometimes you just have to let stuff roll off of your tongue. Act like you are practicing when you do it. Act like she is not really there. Who knows? She might say yes.
2006-10-20 22:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by deljuana1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just walk right up to her and start a conversation!!!! Then, when the time is right ask her for her number and to go out to eat.
2006-10-20 22:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by coloradopsych 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to her and ask her if she'd want to hang sometime and if she says no then just take a deep breath and move on...remember be confident =]
2006-10-20 22:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her um im shy and a girl lol umm yea write her a not or something
2006-10-20 22:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by my_emo_romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out something you have in common and start a convo about that.. when you ask her out be casual ... you don't want to scare her of ..lol. welll good luck
2006-10-20 22:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel man
maybe a poem ?
tell me if u need one
i can write you one
or jus go and ask her sometime
but dont get too attached before you ask her out
2006-10-20 22:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw the other people, just say "Will you go out with me?" if she really likes you she will say yes! whats the worst that can happen? =)
2006-10-20 22:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by sexaymonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋