My girlfriend of the last three weeks is wanting me to move in with her. I really dig her, she has alotta qualities that attract me to her. We have been together every night since we first started seeing each other, yet aint sure if that would be the smart thang to do. Aint concerned with old-fashioned viewpoints, but more concerned if it is too soon in a relationship that aint wore off the newness yet.
2006-10-20 15:03:26 · 23 answers · asked by lifon_thedge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't move in. It will make it more difficult to break up if it doesn't work out--you will have to find another place to live, and you may stay together because it's easier, not because it's right.
2006-10-20 15:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by jg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe staying a night or two for the time being, would work out a lot better. Moving in this soon in some way, tie you both n it'd be more difficult to move out if things start to fall apart at the seams, when the passion starts wearing off slowly but surely.
2006-10-20 15:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 3 weeks is a little soon. Give it another three weeks and ask yourself again... my parents moved in together after 6 weeks, married in 6 months, now it's 24 years later, with me and my sisters all happy productive girls. What I'm trying to say is it's not that a fast moving relationship can't succeed... just don't push it... let it flow.
2006-10-20 15:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks, you dont know her well enough for that. THats just too soon. I made the mistake of moving in with my ex after dating 3 months and it was a total mistake. Wouldnt do it again.We are now divorced.My current husband we dated then moved in together when we got married.
2006-10-20 15:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lucille 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any doubts at all, you should wait. After all, you two have nothing but time to get to know each other. What's the rush? Enjoy dating before taking the plunge to living together.
2006-10-20 15:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you are the only one with the answer. It already sounds like you have made up your mind though, because you are questioning wether or not you should. Look in your own heart and mind wiegh the pros and cons then choose the best choice.
2006-10-20 15:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks? too short...may be because you spent every night with her for the past few weeks that's why she wanna do it...but still i would say it's too short, got to know her better, but it's up to you two. i'm of the old-fashioned type.
2006-10-20 15:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by the.buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should move in it is to soon. you are getting to she a different side of her in a few she will start showing her true colors and if u still like her after that then u two should start talking about moving in
2006-10-20 15:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by whiteangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if you're asking this question then it's too soon to be shackin' up with your girlfriend of 3 weeks.
2006-10-20 15:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First how old are you? I would. I married my wife in that time because I believe in FATE. Now we have three children and happily married. Or ask your MOTHER lol.
2006-10-20 15:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by CURIOUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋