I met a guy that went 2 another school @ one of our dances. my best friend had liked him 4ever... she knew him from soccer. he asked me 2 dance and i found out that he lived in my neighborhood. all the girls @ my school thought he was really hot. then he asked me out and i said yes. but then talking 2 him was like talking to a wall and he was really immature. i haven't seen him in like a week. and another reason i wanna break up... i found out he was calling one of the other girls in my class he even asked her if she wanted to see a movie w/ him. how should i break up w/ him? what should i say?
2006-10-20 15:02:39 · 13 answers · asked by hannah t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just dont call or talk to him.. he'll get the hint without you even saying anything.
2006-10-20 15:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if silence is a good way to break up. It's pretty rude. And the other responder, is right. Do it in person. Email breakups are pathetic. If my gf tried that trick, I would be pissed.
I agree. Just tell how you feel. Honesty is so much better than a bunch of bs. If you haven't spoken to him in a week that's a long time. Clearly if he's asking another girl to a movie he can't be serious now.
2006-10-20 15:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by dtshaff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. He may be a brick wall, but he'll hear something. Tell him what you know about the call, and tell him to be more mature. One thing that guys can't stand is a girl who tells them to be mature. And if he doesn't shape up, then let him go. With no mercy, of course.
2006-10-20 15:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Aj Sparx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does it matter? cuz it sounds like he doesnt deserve a respectable or any special breakup to avoid him from being hurt cause it wont matter to him. just tell him whenever u see him next that its not working out...and besides,it seems like u dont fit with this guy and u have all the right reasons to breakup.
2006-10-20 15:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by slims 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont seem 2 have much of a relationship so u might be able 2 just make yourself unavailable and not have 2 tell him n e thing @ all f u no what i mean.
2006-10-20 15:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the friend that he asked to the movies accept his invitation. Then have her tell him that you guys are finished, then maybe she can walk out on the date...
2006-10-20 15:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by The Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he do like that it mean he is totally a J E R K!
just say that " i think we should break up cuz u r TOO immature for me!"
show him that u can move on without him.
good luck
2006-10-20 15:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him everything u just told us starting from "talking 2 him" and ask what he's doing with those other girls!
2006-10-20 15:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kel Kel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him its over.. Simple.. I doubt that there are any serious feelings there so it shouldn't be hard at all. Just stop talking to his a** or straight up tell him the truth AND THEN stop talking to his a**.
2006-10-20 15:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by lecia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him its over simply as that hes not right tell him its him not you b/c he was cheating on you with this other girl thats not right you sound to good for this guy hes way under you
2006-10-20 15:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by vampire queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋