tonight, I went out with my boyfriend and we watched a scary movie in the cinema.. he kept on saying things to scare me in the movie. once we went out he kept scaring me. i shouted at him to stop.. he just laughs. but i was scared. he even made me more scared. he thinks its funny. ideot.. near the door, he said seriously. can you see these stranger ppl sitting in kfc, and it was dark there and closed. it was 2am. i was freaked. and told him and shouted to stop. i yelled at him, scared. asking him to shutup..its not funny.
in the car we were argue, I was angry. I slapped hiim twice, second one did reallly hit him. and he threated me he will get it back to me, he will come tonight and scare me from the window or back garden. i felt he was an evil person. I dont know why he is doing that. is he normal.. he kept telling me. that I need to see a doctor and am not normal. damn. i am a normal girl. i get scared.. he does not understand
what do you think i should do... thank :(
2006-10-20 14:40:58 · 57 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a freak. Dump him. Before you know it, he'll be the type to throw live spiders on you if he knows you're violently afraid of them; or he'll jump out of a closet with a large knife when you're alone. He's a complete maniac, and eventually he's going to annoy the wrong person with his immature behavior and he's going to get his *** kicked. Hopefully it happens soon.
2006-10-20 14:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I aways found scary movies make my dates feel safe with me. Looks like you both don't know each other. You need to remember it's only a movie and not real. He needs to know when to stop. You both need need to see a councillor. You shouldn't hit. It does more damage than the physical pain.Shouting isn't good either it makes the other party more defencive and many people will continue doing the upseting action because they don't like being shouted at. Next time ask him to protect you not scare you.
2006-10-20 21:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, lots of people do things like that. One night when I was on my way home I read a series of really scary stories, and I got scared. I called my boyfriend and told him I was actually scared, and asked him if he was home, then he said 'no'. When I got home, he was hiding behind curtain to scare me in the dark. (But that didn't work, since I could guess that he would be doing something like that.)
The point is, people do that sort of thing to not annoy you, but to show you that he/she is paying you attention, and by doing so, they want your attention. So by reacting to it, you are only making him want to do it more.
I know it scares you, then tell him firmly that you are actually annoyed and it is getting too much. If he doesn't stop, then tell him you are not 'playing' with him any more, till he stops. To do that, tell him you are not enjoying spending time together because he scares you, so you might want to be alone for a little while.
2006-10-20 15:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by ono 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he's a good guy, he will eventually realize he took a joke too far. Guys sometimes like to keep pushing a joke as long as they keep getting a reaction. I know its childish, but he needs to grow up and realize that you were serious. I think some things were said and done out of anger, but I don't think he's a bad person. If he doesn't realize his mistake, then you should consider your options.
2006-10-20 14:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him quickly before you end up in a nut house!! This guy is obviously not the man for you!! Why would any normal human being want to scare there partner half to death is beyond me. Break free whilst you can!!
2006-10-20 22:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knew you were scared, he clearly carried on for a reaction...............
I don't agree with you slapping him, violence from a male or female is unacceptable, but if he scares you that much there is little point in continuing the relationship.........
Unless it was a silly joke of his that went too far and tomorrow he comes round a says a huge sorry xx
2006-10-20 15:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not cool that your boyfriend was intentionally scaring you. If this is a regular occurrence then you may want to reconsider your relationship. If it was a one time thing then maybe he was just having a rough day and was taking it out on you by scaring you. but either way, you should two should talk because his behavior is unacceptable.
2006-10-20 14:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a pathetic control freak who is trying to dominate you. Most of these freaks are cowards and bullies but can be nasty so get rid of him and find someone who treats you well.
Amazing thing is that many women see this type of man as something good and kind/considerate guys as wimps. The wimp ain't a wimp, he's thoughtful and will look after you. I personally am big and ugly enough to choose to be kind and thoughtful.
2006-10-20 20:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump that freak!! Ya my ex does that too, some guys just like to see gals frightened for the fun of it, what when you ask him to stop he should. Your bf doesn't know the limits. Dump him, make him feel the pain. You'll find someone better :)
2006-10-21 04:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jordaan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest i really think that you could do a lot better
Someone to treat you with the respect and dignity that you deserve.
Someone to love you for just being you
Go and be happy because i can see that you are not at the moment
good luck girl
2006-10-20 23:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋