I need some advice...plz read and provide useful advice?
I have a guy friend that i really like. he is a huge flirt to girls who love public attention, but thats not me. weve had a couple of serious convos and we chat casually almost every schoolday. he is really busy so outside of school the only times weve hung out are a couple times at football games.
Sometimes we will look into eachothers eyes and i get this REALLY intense feeling and it seems like time stops. i think he feels it too cuz its happened several times and sometimes he will come up beside me and catch my eyes and well have one of those intense moments.
we can totally relate to eachother and out of all of his friends he only has a few REAL friends and told me im one of them. i text him and/or call him a few times a week and he responds like 70% of the time...
He likes this other girl, but he told me he likes a lot of girls...could i be one of them? what should i do? thanx!
P.S. Advice on getting him to like me?
2006-10-20 14:37:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow..i can tell that ur into this guy...from my little experience with guys kinda similar, as a girl who would be putting out my every effort to get with a guy i really liked, i learnt that i should never chase a guy unless its a 100% mutual....if he feels the same way and he wants to be with u, let him step up to the plate. i think u both know how u feel, and now its his turn to let u know about how he feels about u and u only.....and by the way it sounds,....i have to wonder if u "would like to be on the list of gurls he likes" if u were ever to be on a list u should be @ #1 and you should be the only 1 on the list..if he likes u he should be able to show u and act on it genuinely.....if he cant...u deserve better.
2006-10-20 14:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by slims 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What grade are you in? If he's a big flirt and likes alot of girls then I think you're setting yourself up for a heartbreak. I have no doubt that you're 1 of the girls but I think that for now you should just remain his friend until he matures more. Good luck.
2006-10-20 14:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by chrisser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to contain a question in 2 sentences so our eyes don't glaze over reading all the extrenious minutae that has no bearing on anything. Translation--a lot of stupid details that don't matter and bore the crap out of the reader. You want help, make it short and sweet.
2006-10-20 14:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like sunshine there could use some sunshine lol. I think you should just ask him out. What do you have to lose? Plus, he'll appreciate the fact that you made the first move.
2006-10-20 14:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player to me! Be careful!
2006-10-20 14:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS NOT GIVING YOU THAT 1ON 1 TIME THAT YOU DESERVE, THEN KICK HIM TO CURVE. STOP CALLING HIM DON'T LOOK AT HIM ACKNOWLEDGE HIM WHEN HE ACKNOWLEDGES YOU. STOP BEING THE HUNTER AND BE THE PREY. IF HE DOESN'T COME AROUND THEN YOU KNOW YOU WERE NOT THAT IMPORTANT TO BEGIN WITH
2006-10-20 14:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by MS. SWEET T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes "A LOT" of girls... you'll probably end up hurt...so don't worry about it, don't go out of your way to "get" him to like you because it will probably end up badly...
I don't mean to be harsh...
2006-10-20 14:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by i_love_my_mp 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he already does like you! Ask him out!!! now!!! =D
2006-10-20 14:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋