Is it fate or a lack of planning?
Is this a variation on Que Sera Sera? (what will be will be)
If you totally fail to connect with someone time and time again, is there some higher mysterious force at work? Or is it really logistical caused by a lack of planning?
2006-10-20 14:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by TheSkeptic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither.
Just random probabilities.
2006-10-20 14:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I absolutely believe that everything happens for a reason, all things good and bad. There is a divine plan for all of us. Do you ever wonder why you try to re-connect time and time again? Is it a relationship of convience, you are meant to be together or is it just to stall you until the one you are truly meant to be with comes into your life? It may also just be a learning experience letting you know that you don't have to settle. The world just makes a little bit more sence to me this way. Why some babies are burned why some people are criminals, I believe that for some reason these bad (and good) things happen in the world. Like a child who dies from cancer may have the stem cells for us to finnaly find a cure. I know that not all people feel this way but it makes me have a closer feeling that we were not created to live throught sorrow with no reward in the grand scheme of things.
2006-10-20 21:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything does happen for a reason...look back on things that have happened in your life...and you realize..OOOH thats how I got here. Each step in life leads you to the next adventure....
You just get to the age of where you finally accept there is a destiny and they you start looking for little clues along the way while you are going thru the next adventure and that is the problem...You are paying too close attention and then you do not enjoy the adventure because you are looking at the signs....
Enjoy it..Life has a way of leading you to who and where you need to go...
2006-10-20 21:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason. When your going through something tough, the Lord is preparing you for that same situation so that you know how to tackle it again! One example for me was when I was in the fifth grade, we had reading buddies that were younger than us. Well everyone had one reading buddies and I got two. They were a handful but I liked helping them. Well now I have two sisters ane there a handful too but I've been there done that! So I know how to tackle that situation. How Ironic!
2006-10-20 21:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Careatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the book of Romans in the Bible, Romans 8:28 states that all things work together for good to love God, to them that are the called according to his purpose. If you are a Christian, all you must do is to trust God for the outcome. Now not everything that happens is good, God can just rearrange circumstances through the use of His sovreignty. It is much easier to accept the situation when you know God is working in your behalf as one of His Children.
2006-10-20 21:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by flowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes everything happens for a reason. Although it is very difficult to understand and accept. I takes a long time even for a devowed christian to accept the things god allows and denies in our lives but in the long run ,allowing god to control our lives and following his will and way, life will be much more simple and less chaotic than if we try to do it all on our own.
2006-10-20 21:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think that everything happens for a good reason but we just dont see it as a good reason at the time but later in our lives we realize all of the positive things aobut the situation and why g-d wanted this to happen.
2006-10-20 21:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by i love rain92790 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yea i think so becuase i like this guy at my church and when i think that im not giong to sit near him, i do and its like god or something put me there becuase its happend everytime, i sat on the other side one day, and he said right there too.. and then when i saw on the other side, he sat there close to me too
and also in school when i dont do my homework or when i do the wronge homework or something i think i didnt do my homework and then it turs out that i did do my homework..
and soo many other stuff too....those are just somethingss..
so yes i do think that everything happends for a reason..
2006-10-20 21:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by applebottom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there really a higher mysterious force? Are we really even here? Who are you? Who am I? Ok, I'll take my medication and slip back into my straight jacket.
As for your question, who knows.
2006-10-20 21:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! everything happens for a reason you may not always be able to see the reason right away but if you wait long enough you will see. TRUST ME!
2006-10-20 21:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by imissyou_iluvyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋