i had a child with a girl last year. i broke up with her and stoped seeing my son. i got with anouther girl and i broke up with her because i still had feeling for the first girl. i started seeing the first girl again and am happy with her. the problem is the second girl now says she is pregnate and wont move out unless she talks to my first girl. i dont belive its mine because i have evidence of her cheating. should i let the second girl talk to the first?
2006-10-20 14:05:33 · 11 answers · asked by brandonbamboo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 16 weeks gestation you can get a DNA/ paternity test via amnioscentisis. It costs (From B.C.) about $500 cad. I wouldn't do anything until the results come back in 2-4 weeks. I know that seems like forever, but in reality it'll be just 4.5 months along. Plenty of time to make decisions prior to the birth. And don't just toss this poor soul out, even if it is not your baby, be kind and make sure she has a good place to go. Do not make any physical moves with girl one until you have this shite figured out with girl 2, out of respect for them both, and for yourself. For both their sakes, keep them apart until they need to meet. My babies daddies (I can't beleive I just wrote that) don't know each other. They haven't met even though they've asked once or twice. I figure, if I have to, I will. But not until - that's just a can of worms, yo.
2006-10-20 15:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want even more trouble! The child could be yours if you have been sleeping with the second girl-even if she did cheat! It sounds like you enjoy cheating yourself. If the second baby turns out to be yours then you will be responsible for that child as well. You need to choose one and stick with her unless you can handle them both! Use birth control!
2006-10-20 14:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is a hard one... it kinda depends on what the second girl is going to say to the first but if you want the second girl out of your life and thats the only way to get her out than let her talk because you can also protest to what girl number 2 is saying and her is some more advice if you really love this girl (number 1) than marry her its as simple as that
2006-10-20 14:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by leesewitherspoon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have gf #2 prove her case via a DNA test. Until then, no talking. If her baby is yours, then you have your duties cut out for you. If it's not then tell her to take it up with the kid's true father.
And I must agree with the first responder, learn the responsiblity of using birth control!
2006-10-20 14:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a common 35 year previous guy does not choose a 12 year previous woman! i'm no longer shocked that his spouse needs to take further action - somebody needs to! the guy is a low-life who preys on the sentiments of immature women. He might desire to be in the back of bars! Your mom might desire to deal with the area somewhat extra ideal and understand which you have been being manipulated via this guy, yet i'm no longer shocked that she's indignant at your behaviour. You needless to say did very much of mendacity to her if she has in basic terms in simple terms found out. perplexing because it incredibly is to settle for, he did no longer care approximately you, he in basic terms cared approximately himself. For God's sake do no longer pass around telling people who you pass over him, or they are going to assume which you knew precisely what you have been doing and did no longer care with regard to the outcomes. This guy is a threat to little ones and that i think of that anybody interpreting your tale may well be happy to work out him locked up.
2016-10-15 06:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does she want to talk to the first girl about? Sounds like a bad idea to me.
2006-10-20 14:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Not_a_toothless_pirate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be adults...No drama w/kids involved. Do not be the one left out in the cold...or in the dark....DNA tests could help w/decisions. Know who is the father of both children and DON'T BE FOOLED. You will know what to do if you are in love w/one or the other......
2006-10-20 14:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dang! The first thing you should do is get a paternity test. Then you can see for yourself. When we make choices for ourselves there are always consequences!
2006-10-20 14:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by Careatha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask for a paternity test. Personally I wouldn't want them to talk to each other, but that's my opinion.
Good luck!
2006-10-20 14:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by katie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what condoms are for? Geez.
2006-10-20 14:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋