He wants me to give my son over to his father cause his real father has not taken total care of him so that we can be together. Now I have talked to my son and he said he would do it for a trial period of a month but he knows that he doesnt want to live with him totally? What should I do?
2006-10-20 14:05:17 · 28 answers · asked by postal_marg 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't go ga-ga over some selfish brute of a man asking you to choose him over your kid. You came as a package deal. Kick that selfish creep to the curb.
2006-10-20 14:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Honor your son and the HELL with that so called man. Your son did not ask to be here and I would go to Hell before I give up my son just because some man want us to be together. Throw him out on his butt for even considering such a selfish jesture. Your child is telling you what YOU are not hearing. Your subject is a bit too testy for me. As a matter of fact, I'll take him if you just need to be with this man. Who's more important a child that you carried for 9 months or this jerk. If this man loved you, he would accept your son.
2006-10-20 21:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you just wanna hand your son over, so that you can "please" your man!! HELL NO!! If your son wants to go, which by your post it sounds as if he isn't thrilled to do so, then let him visit his father. Why would you want to do anything like this for a man...I can't even answer this question appropriately, I don't fully understand how you would wanna get rid of your child for ANY man. If the biological father is not in the child's life now(as this is what I assume from the posting) then why would you send your child to stay with him? I am sorry I am trying to understand....I just don't get it.........Good Luck to your son
2006-10-20 21:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by KansasCityGirl26 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you choose a man over your son, I think you may want to re-evaluate yourself as a mother. Apparently this jack *** doesn't want the responsibility of having a son around. He can either accept you and your son or hit the road. Actually I think you need to go ahead and ditch him and find someone who is gonna love you and your child. What a loser. Maybe he would be better off with his dad. For you to even ask a question like this is insane. Poor kid.
2006-10-20 21:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by awagner1971 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you would even entertain the idea of giving up your child for a man. What planet are you from? If the child already knows he doesn't want to live there full time then something must be wrong. I hope this is just one of those Questions to irritate people. If it is you did. My blood is boiling. If you care no more for your child than this give him to a relative that really cares or turn him over to someone who will make sure he is safe and taken care of. GRRRRRRRRRRR!
2006-10-20 21:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by CuervoBMed 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry if this comes across rude or mean or anything but what kind of mother in the right mind would give up their child, regardless of the length of time, for a man? i'm sorry but my son comes first in my life and there is no one in the world who would change that. this guy met you and you had a son and you're a package deal. if his real father hasn't taken care of him up to this point, why would you trust him to do so now? maybe you should consider giving up your man....seems like a great guy
2006-10-20 21:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jeni O 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lady if i was you don't take that Chance for any guy. he shouldn't want this any was if he loves you. you and you son is a package dill stay close to your son if this guy cant accept that then hes not a man get rid of him. a mother that loves her child won't give her son up for any amount of time for a guy. he shouldn't make you choice.
2006-10-20 21:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by merri s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? How could you ever give up your son for your man? You have some serious issues, and really need to re-evaluate your life. If you would really consider giving up your child for your boyfiend, then you don't deserve to have a child in the first place!!!
2006-10-20 21:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't do that i mean you love you son i would pick my son over any boyfriend and if the father doesn't care i would keep my son and if the guy has a problem with that dump him
2006-10-20 21:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by nana 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just my opinion, I've never had any respect for someone who picks a man (or woman) over his children, or someone who asks a person to make that choice. Your son should come first.
2006-10-20 21:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋