i think we should all stop judging people. I came to this conclusions not because God inspired me but from own experience. I know some really sweet girl she's so nice but she's afraid of God she has lost her virginity. She gave up on trying to save herself because the people around her branded her a slut so now she sleeps with any joe and here is her excuse "well i already f*cked up anyways" It makes me want to cry. I want to bring her back to Christ. How can i? She feels terrible about herself
2006-10-20 13:49:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Let us pray
dear lord we are all in a mess
please help this girl back into the light as you help us all back into the light we pray for your forgivness for all of us please in Jesus name save us all
amen
God Loves your Heart
keep praying god has the power to change lives and the grace to forgive
2006-10-20 13:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by proscunio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kid, you are describing me almost 20 years ago. WOW, I say you can pray that she remains alive until she comes back to Christ herself. YOu can't bring her there. Sadly she will likely continue to live like this for a long time. The people I'm most thankful for from that period of my life are those that "rescued" me when I called. For example the girl that picked me up at 3 in the morning from some dudes house after my dude was found in a room with another chick, or the sweet girl that came to my rescue at 2am after a boyfriend had practiced his kickboxing routine on my back. Just be there for her, love her, let her know you do NOT approve of the behaviour but you do love her and that you are going to wait and be willing to always, always help when she needs it. Be Christ to her, right now you may be all she's got. Good luck friend to both you and this wandering girl.
2006-10-20 13:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by mamatoshreksboys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one, no matter how righteous they believe themselves to be has the power to save themselves. Show her the story of Mary Magdalene who was caught in prostitution, yet became an ardent follower of Christ when she was shown the love of God and His power to forgive.
Because the sacrifice was so great, the blood of Christ, the power to forgive is equally great. Where sin abounds, God's grace much more abounds. If you confess your sins, He is faithful to forgive you your sins and to cleanse you from all unrighteousness. Jesus did not come to save the righteous but the sinner. Nothing can separate you from the love of Christ. All things come together for the good for those who love God and are called according to His purpose.
God's love and promises never fail. The judgment is good news for those who are in Christ Jesus. They are judged righteous because of the purity of the life of Christ. The righteous look forward to the judgment. All God wants is a broken and contrite spirit so that He can work His work of sanctification in your life
2006-10-20 14:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by 19jay63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is shitty I hated when that happened..
Sex without Love is more sin.. Follow your heart is the teaching..
Ok The real meaning of the verse is your first Love is God, is Love, is Christ.., the Beloved.. We all have Him chained (devils chains AND DEVIL IS EGO-MIND AND WE LIVE IN THE ILLUSION..) in our hearts (He is like Houdini and always comes free) We are with another guy now, the devil, the ego mind and find our way back to our first Love is what we WILL do//
What God has brought together NO MAN can seperate NOT The DEVIL NO MAN..
Remember to tell her it saYS blessed is he who understands this and thus it is not so straightforward and I give you this pearl cause you are no swine//
Love
2006-10-20 14:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Paradise Regained 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that Jesus heals the broken, and has never stopped loving her even though she's made mistakes. Remind her of Isiah 58:8: "Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard." Tell her that no matter how badly she feels, God sees her as a beautiful child of his that he is willing to heal and restore.
I hope this helps, and God bless.
2006-10-20 13:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by tee es 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she feels terrible about herself then she at least feels conviction of herself..knowing right and wrong.Pray for her ..for it is anothers welfare you are concerned with and God will favor that act.
2006-10-20 14:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by listener 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think helping her feel better about herself is more important than "bringing her back to christ".
2006-10-20 13:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to read john 3 BY HERSELF.Ask her to study it.
If she does great for you.If she doesn't all you can do is kindly and respectfully suggest every-once in a while.
2006-10-20 13:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Myaloo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her head has been messed up badly even before this incident occurred. Maybe you should teach her to respect herself first?
Just thought,
A
2006-10-20 13:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Alan 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello storm.. :)
Just let her listen to this video.. :)
http://fathersloveletter.com/fllnarration.html
It will soften her heart..for God is calling her.. :)
I will keep her in my heart and my prayers..you can tell her I am here for her.. :)
In Jesus Most Precious Name..
With Love..In Christ.. :)
2006-10-20 13:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by EyeLovesJesus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋