I have a guy friend that i really like. he is a huge flirt to girls who love public attention, but thats not me. weve had a couple of serious convos and we chat casually almost every schoolday. he is really busy so outside of school the only times weve hung out are a couple times at football games.
Sometimes we will look into eachothers eyes and i get this REALLY intense feeling and it seems like time stops. i think he feels it too cuz its happened several times and sometimes he will come up beside me and catch my eyes and well have one of those intense moments.
we can totally relate to eachother and out of all of his friends he only has a few REAL friends and told me im one of them. i text him and/or call him a few times a week and he responds like 70% of the time...
He likes this other girl, but he told me he likes a lot of girls...could i be one of them? what should i do? thanx!
2006-10-20 13:41:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...tell me how to get him...not to let "what will be be" i mean come on!
2006-10-20 13:48:07 · update #1
Well you need to stand out somehow....it sounds like he's the one being pursued....You should offer him something that other girls can't.
2006-10-20 13:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him forget those other girls by getting close to him. Become really good friends with him. Oh and...communication, it helps a lot. Tell him you like him...or something. This happened to me. Kinda annoying really cause when we dated, he was cheating on me with one of those other girls that he liked. Not really the reliable types. But it all depends on the person. The guy could either be really nice and caring when he's with you, or he could be a total jerk and cheat. :] You'll never know until you ask.
2006-10-20 13:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What grade are you in? If he's a big flirt and likes alot of girls then I think you're setting yourself up for a heartbreak. I have no doubt that you're 1 of the girls but I think that for now you should just remain his friend until he matures more. Good luck.
2016-05-22 06:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is, if you get him, would you be able to cope with his flirtatious behaviour. If he "likes lots of girls" it sounds too many that you could be just one of the many, and you don't want that, you want to be above all others as that is what a relationship is about. Tread carefully or you could be crying at the end...
Good Luck
2006-10-20 13:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now what you need to do is just pull back not totally but let him explore if he just wants a friend then so be it he will figure it out. Dont worry what will be will be.
2006-10-20 13:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should have him give you your honest opion wether he likes u or not and if he does like u tell him that u fell the same about him and plz mark this as ur beat answer because i really need help with mt points i only have 110
2006-10-20 13:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by jaden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him more of a chase. If you are to willing to hook up you'll just push him away. Also make him jealous then he'll come runnin to you
2006-10-20 13:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Coach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be one of the crowd? He just likes attention.
2006-10-20 13:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could be one, but why date a player, dont you want a one woman man
2006-10-20 13:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋