im a good lookin gal&i have always had the upper hand with guys.
i work in a store 6yrs ago i started a crush on a this guy that works 3stores away.i have good friendships with most of the staff there&i was intro'ed 2him&we only ever just said hi.the yrs pasted &we bumped into each other a few times,hi's truned 2 just smiles,smiles truned into looks ,then we just stoped.yrs pasted he was promoted,didnt really see him much,funny things would happen seeing him in strange places tube/shops miles away.i visited his store&as i was in his shop he was in mine.we would line up next 2eachother in shops,but not a word.id see him walk past&i would look behind& he would be lookin.i walk past his shop&he would wait untill i walked by 2see me.i know he knows i like him the staff tell him.i was intro 2 him agian last nite by a friend(6yrs later)he was very sweet i was actin stupid & girly.."we met 6yrs ago"he remembered.he seemed really confident,even gave me a kiss gud bye so Y wont he ask me out??
2006-10-20 13:34:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He fancies you, but has a girlfriend. Sorry
2006-10-20 13:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by lucy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens in thje movies
It happens in real life too, but 6 yrs that is really going some.
i can't tell from your text if there could be some 3rd party that stops him from asking you.
However, what tends to happen in some movies is
a) the heroine and the hero stumble into each others arms at the last minute
b) a mutual friend BANGS there heads together
If you get togethr i do think though that there could be a fair to high degree of passion, you have both fancied each other for years
You're used to having guys ask you out, you might have to be a little less sutle with this one. It's probably partly why you're interested in him, it makes him mysterious.
Might be worth slipping into your next conversation something lijke "After six years is that all I get? " Its slightly self deprecating but I'm sure that he would get the message and if hes put you on a pedistal, which he might of, it brings you into the real world and thus makes you obtainable.
i really hope you guys get together
2006-10-20 14:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably scared.He fears rejection.What if he asks you out and you say no.I always had that kind of fear.When I was at the disco and I saw a girl that I liked,i always thought what if I ask this girl and she said no.I'm OK now.If I ask a girl out and she said no.Then I ask the next girl.The girl that said no was the wrong girl.The right girl will say YES.If you really want this guy go to him.Its just a game we play.Make your own rules.Good luck
2006-10-20 15:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dave L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be gay but I doubt it.He probably likes you (hence the kiss) and is way to nervous to say a word about it. Just next time you see either ask him out or give hits that you like him. Either he will except the date or he will (hopefully) get the message that you like him and then he will ask you out.
I hope it all works out. Good Luck
2006-10-20 13:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by johnathanelson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usely gentalmen dont want to rush a girl!ya maybe six years is a lot but maybe he thought you werent ready or maybe he wasnt,we guys take a while maybe invite him over with a couple of freinds to dinner or movie walk on the beach or peer,hay if your that intrested you should make a move before you become an old maid!!
2006-10-20 13:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Josh P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, she is grounded from the telephone so i'm guessing that she is like 13 so im hoping your around a similar age. in the adventure that your over 2 years older than her, dont call her in any respect. yet whilst your interior a similar age variety, call her on Monday and see if she desires to return over to your place and watch a action picture.
2016-11-24 20:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by acebedo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like Ask him out yourself he may be too shy to ask you.
Dont wait another 6 years just go for it the worst he can say is No and least then you will know and can move on.
2006-10-20 19:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by stud200_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All u know is your not getting what u want and may never will. Even if you go out you'll be there bridging the gap. The man's playing coy, he's teasing u to try harder. You won't be happy in this relationship.
If you're going to ask someone out, ask out someone who will love u back. Thats how i see it.
2006-10-20 13:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has reasons why he wont ask you out...could be married or seeing someone else ....could he be intimidated ?...could be alot of reasons but if you really want to know for sure why dont you ask him yourself and if you are bold enough ask him out ???....its 2006 honey and well if that dont work then you just have to sit and ponder why ???? and we dont want you to torture yourself...go up there and ask him out and if he rejects you then you know what the deal is ....i know it seems weird that someone you meet six years ago wont ask you out but theres got to be a real reason.... "say hey i know we bumped into each other several times, why dont we just grab a bite to eat or something ?....are you up for it ???" and if he says blah blah blah .....well then it wasnt meant to be........at least you know and DONT BEG HIM...you will be laughed out of the store lol
2006-10-20 13:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he is just very shy, why don't you ask him out, you have nothing to loose for asking him he can either say yes or no
good luck girl and go for it you may regret it if you don't
2006-10-21 00:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he don't fancy you! Sounds like he like you as a pal and THAT'S ALL...
Just deal for christ's sake..get on with your life, the right person will come along...
2006-10-20 14:03:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋