my gf has an abusive stepdad that is totally violent towards her, she's comming here (to tassie) end of December though he dont want her to, she turns 17 next month and as far as I know the law has no legal recourse to stop her (by her stepdad and mum)....
she told me last night that she almost jumped off the Fremantle Bridge (perth WA) because she'd simply had enough, I love her with every part of me and always will but I dont want her to get physically beaten before comming here........hence I worry ALOT, I have already contacted a police officer that I personally know but am looking for some general ideas, short of flying to Perth and kicking his **** what can I do???
I need help here to help her, please give genuine advice only..
thanks in advance,
Mitch
Launceston, Tas
2006-10-20 13:28:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Australia ➔ Other - Australia
That's a difficult situation to be in. I would say have her talk to her mom to try and talk some sense into the step-dad. I'm sure he won't listen to your gf, but he might listen to his wife. If that doesn't work, would she be able to leave the jerk forever and stay with you? If you "love every part of her" you should be able to find a way. Good luck!
2006-10-20 13:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah Says 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I genuinely feel for you, Mitch but unfortunately there is very little you can do in a situation like this. The person that should look out for her while she is in Perth is her mom. What's her standing in all of this? Does she even care that her husband is abusing her daughter? Or is she too scared to interfere because he's beating her up too? Isn't there a friend or family member with whom your girlfriend can stay until December? I could wring that bastard's neck! A low life coward, that's what he and his kind are. You must beg your gf to go to the police if her life is in danger. Committing suicide is not a solution. Her step dad is just not worth that. Also, be sure to letting her know how much you care. It will help her not feeling so alone. Wish I could be of more help!
2006-10-20 13:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off what the hell is wrong with her mother? Second are you sure she is being truthful about why she is getting into trouble? Could she possibly be sneaking out to see boys and that is the reason she is in trouble but just not telling you her sob story. Try to help her look into getting emancipated. Are you ready to marry her? Get married if you can? Ask your parents if she can come to stay short term after explaining her situation. Call her local child protective authorities or the police and file a report (anyomously). If she is still in high school tell her to confide in a trusted teacher, friend, friend parents,family member. Last but not least I would run away from home after exhausting all possibilites to a safe place.
2006-10-20 13:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by nene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mitch,
You should also ask this question in the other categories of this site like "Family & Relationships" and "Health" There are some good people out there that can give you some more good advice on this secoius problem
Mitch go and buy yourself a ticket and go and get her. If somthing happens to her and your still sitting there in Tasmania you will never forgive yourself.
In order for you to get her away from her step dad get her to put a restraining order on him.
Don't waste any more time
2006-10-20 15:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by DY Beach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're actual very courageous. stable for you, for leaving! Wow. You took the stairs that mandatory to be taken. stay with your pastor and his kin b/c they are human beings you will possibly desire to be surrounded via. Supportive !!! I guess that your mom has no longer abandoned you thoroughly , i'm constructive she loves you and sometime whilst she finds the braveness to get out of the undesirable dating with your doorstep dad she will come around. definite, she is scared. in simple terms understand that and embody her whilst the time comes. Forgive her :) She probable incredibly is a strong mom yet, is in a undesirable difficulty additionally. stay the place you're. you're on top of issues and did the impressive ingredient. enable your pastor help you get on your ft and then all you're able to do is wait till your loved ones sees the gentle which you probably did the impressive ingredient !
2016-10-15 06:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lot easier to give advice than it is to carry it out. If I were her I'd have a weapon -a baseball bat is good- and be ready to beat the living sh1t out of him should he come anywhere near me, but I'm a big girl.
A more peaceful option would be for her to call the cops, tell them she doesn;t feel safe, and ask for an escort out of the house when she leaves.
2006-10-20 13:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
don't put your hands on him because you will get into big trouble.
have you met this girl ?
do you believe all she says?
she is very young to be moving interstate
be careful if you have never met her
2006-10-20 13:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too much for you and her to handle. Turn to to Jesus for help. Tell her to stop by her local church
2006-10-20 15:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by intriguedtravel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chop off his penis in the middle of the night with pruning shears.
2006-10-20 13:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
did u hit that...? if you did its cause stat. rape
2006-10-20 13:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by thehundreds 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋