I'm kind of goth-ish but I don't know if that is like scaring guys away or what? Or maybe it's my weight. I lost a lot of weight recently. I'm 5'6 and 99 lbs. and I used to weigh twice that 10 months ago. I'm not stupid, i make decent grades. But I guess you could say I'm not the most extroverted person out there. Any advice on what I should do to get a boyfriend? I really don't want to be the only girl in High School who doesn't have one.
2006-10-20 13:21:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God this is so degrading :/
2006-10-20 13:24:32 · update #1
=/ Maybe you look anerexic cuz goth and skinney ness ... doesnt look that good.
Sorry this isnt much help :[ Good luck? Eat more xD
Try to gain about 10 or 15 pounds ;) Then that would be a good weight.
2006-10-20 13:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Love. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
on the contrary, boyfriends may only end up interfering with you high school education. it's no big deal if you don't have a boyfriend or not. as far as your appearance, try different looks. the 99 pounds thing may be your issue. people may think you're dying of AIDS of something. i commend you on the weight loss, but you may have lost too much weight and then combine that with the goth-ish look you sport, people may be confusing you with Jack Skelington (from NightMare Before Christmas). Experiment with colors and styles but still still to the basics that make you who you are. ( for example, if you're not into make-up, just try eyeliner and lip gloss) you may a side of you that you never knew. GL2U
2006-10-20 13:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5'6" and 99 lbs? You are severely underweight. I have never met you but I'm sure that you don't look that healthy. Eat better and focus on being you. Go to the spa every once in a while they will make you feel like a million bucks. Some evendo killer goth makeup now.Good luck.
2006-10-20 13:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Dick Tater 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Appearance is important from first impressions, but great achievement to lose that weight, but personality is far more important, You need to love yourself before anyone will love you.
My suggestion is for you to concentrate on your fitness/toning and loving yourself for who you are. People pick up an negative vibes so be positive. I go to the gym 3 times a week and love being positive, I have so many friends and often have fun with girls. With regards to boy friends, You will meet them when you least expect it.
Anyway I find Gothic Girls so attractive, horny and mysterious. I just love the black make up and especially when they wear leather or lycra and stockings and tartan. It is just so sexy.
Good luck
have a nice day
2006-10-20 13:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's because you're goth-ish. and 99 lbs for a 5'6" girl is pretty thin! i'm 5'7" and weigh like 122, and i think i'm underweight! i'm sure a guy is gonna want someone who looks healthy, and if you look unhealthy maybe you should work on that. good luck!
2006-10-20 13:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything specicifically just to get a boyfriend. Always be yourself and try to be more social. That way you will meet more guys and work up to talking to them.
Don't worry, even if you don't wind up having a boyfriend in H.S, it's not the end of the world. I never dated in H.S, I started later in life and I have turned out to be a well rounded likeable person!
2006-10-20 13:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by kewlkat103 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goth is creepy. It's the opposite of celebrating life. It's a reminder of death. Normal people do not want to focus on death they want to live and be happy. Tone the goth down and gain a few pounds, you sound like walking death the way you describe yourself.
2006-10-20 13:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 12:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being introverted is fine. You can't change who you are.
One thing you might want to check is your body language. Is it 'closed' off, making you look unapproachable? I have this problem myself. Also your facial expression has a lot to do with how approachable you are. If you like a guy, give him a nice smile....nothing overwhelming...just a pleasant smile. Little things like this make a HUGE difference.
2006-10-20 13:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of the hotest girls I know, had no dates in high school. Don't let it worry you. But if you want to date now, flirt with guys that have sillimar interests that you have.
2006-10-20 13:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Richard J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋