I have tried many different ways and just want the ladies opinions on how they like to be asked out
Help a good down to earth guy out!
2006-10-20 13:16:15 · 14 answers · asked by thesilkysmoove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no secret to get a girl to say yes. As mentioned, just be yourself! We hate it when a guy tries too hard and we ALWAYS know when you are lying about something. We pretend we don't because we know how important it is for you to have self confidence. So basically. . . all you have to do is ask the girl out. Plain and simple. If she like you. . . she will say yes. If she doesn't like you. . . she will say no.
Now to have her go out on the second date. . . you have to find out what she is into during your first date. Make it all about her and politely answer the questions about yourself. Don't try to over do it on the answer. Like I said. . .we do know when you are simply exaggerating! When you ask her on the second date, be sure you listened closely to what she likes and incorporate that in with the date. If she loves animals. Stop into a pet shop to play for a few moments. If she likes flowers, take her to a romantic flower garden. (And show up with one rose. . .too many flowers spell desperate!)
2006-10-20 13:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your head is possibly interior the clouds. that's why you are able to no longer see planet earth or the earthly women that are exhibiting their interest in earthly techniques. The endlessly unmarried, intense high quality adult males are frequently addicted to romantic fantasy. "some day i pass to fulfill that distinctive woman and it is going to be suitable" And so with all those products outfitted up of their head approximately what a courting is meant to be or what they like it to be, they leave out what it rather is. they provide the impression of being for a flashing sign over the girl's head that announces "the girl that God has chosen for me" And it does not take place that way. actual women are a persevering with sadness because of the fact they by no ability degree as much as the fantasy. however the guy denies this by ability of announcing "If she became rather attracted to me she could do X, Y or Z" or "undesirable boys have it much less complicated than this" Or in the event that they do get a spark from somebody, they proceed to steam-roll her with their maximum suitable love dream. She then backs off, and he assumes that's because of the fact she purely did no longer like him sufficient. i understand that's no longer consumer-friendly to do, because of the fact i've got been there. yet you have have been given to provide up the dream, and purely discover some woman which you style of prefer to entice close out with and enable the destiny preserve itself. it is so plenty greater advantageous than letting 3 hundred and sixty 5 days after 3 hundred and sixty 5 days pass by ability of unmarried and on my own, waiting for that magic, dream woman to come back alongside. She's no longer coming. yet those popular women could make you sense style of sturdy on an identical time as you're waiting for her, even even with the incontrovertible fact that relationships with them are messy complicated and tricky at cases. That dream is unquestionably dependency, waiting for somebody to come back alongside and fasten your existence. no longer something, rather yet another person, is going to try this for you. there is not any objective in existence that announces "I"ve arrived". Happiness is at some point at a time. All you're able to do is make at present sturdy. The previous is long previous and the destiny ain't happend yet, as they say.
2016-10-02 12:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a good sense of humor would help you a lot. Don't make her feel that you desperate too, just ask her out casually as if it's not an actual serious date.
2006-10-20 13:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Deeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just ask them direct.Plus if you let them know of your fears of asking or anything esle..Thats a plus too. Woman like down to earth and honest guys.If they say no then it has nothing to do with what u say..They just aren't attracted to you...That's something that just happens in life.Good luck
2006-10-20 13:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best approach is the direct approach. Mature intelligent & confident women want to be treated honestly. No games or hidden agendas. Be yourself.
2006-10-20 13:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask me out, please. A great way to get noticed is by asking this silly question on yahoo answers! Impress her. Compliment her. Join a football team or something. Good way to ask her out is by phone. "What are you doing Saturday night? Wanna hang out and chill?" Say that to her.
2006-10-20 13:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Aliza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to Email me! Im an exotic dancer. Are you interested?
2006-10-20 13:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and ask her out I like going out to breakfast b. myself.
2006-10-20 13:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like guys to be subtle and straight up. We don't like the dissapearing act.
2006-10-20 13:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Time goes by 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies like it when you are being romantic!!!! Give her roses and choclates. Be Yourself!!! I think it will work!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck
2006-10-20 13:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋