my boyfriend broke up with me on sunday and told me that he didnt want a 'serious relationship'.. monday would have been our 1 month.. but i was kewl with that.. and i found out from one of his best friends (who is also one of my best friends) that he broke up with me cuz i wouldnt have sex with him.. guys, would you guys ever break up because she didnt want to have sex with you..???
2006-10-20 13:11:25 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not break up with a girl because she would not have sex with me. If a guy loves you he will wait until you are ready without putting pressure on you. Do not let anyone pressure you too have sex. We think less of a girl if we think she is easy.
2006-10-20 13:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that this slime did this to you. Some men sure are pigs, but the thing is, you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you because of who you are, not as a means to fill some primal urges. You deserve better and you will find a guy who will treat you with the respect you deserve. I have never treated a woman this way, for I prefer to know the woman first and start building an emotional bond before letting sex, and the emotions associated with it, get in the way.
2006-10-20 13:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by MichiganFan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. I'm not a guy. But I just wanted to say: if this guy broke up with you after only one month because you wouldn't have sex with him, consider yourself LUCKY!
Girl, you absolutely do NOT need a scumbag like this in your life! You are worth far more than that! And there are hundreds of guys out there who will appreciate and value you because of your convictions.
Guys who are only interested in getting laid should buy an inflatable doll and leave nice girls alone!
2006-10-20 13:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back when I was younger, I would have done that. What you need to keep in mind is that sex, as nice as it is, will never be fulfilling unless you have a solid mature relationship to go along with it.
You need to make your own decisions in life, and know that with every decision comes consequenses, both good and bad. As long as you can live with them, then you are being true to yourself.
2006-10-20 13:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! Sex is a big part of a budding relationship.
2006-10-20 13:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Richard J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do that...And then when she gives in and thinks that they are going to live forever together. He won't give her the time of day...Stick to your guns and don't give it up till its right.
2006-10-20 13:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!! that is just wrong sex just happens when both partners are ready for it.
2006-10-20 13:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by tv_braves_baseball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋