So there is this boy I've been feeling on and off for about a year. Well last year he asked me out but me bein' a dummy thought he was playing. Now we never really talk, he has a girlfriend that he's in love with and I've still got feelings for him. I'm starting to think that when he asked me out he wasn't playing, and that's making me feel guilty. I could never amount to the girl he's with and I'm finding it hard to move on. What's yall's advice?
2006-10-20 13:06:02 · 18 answers · asked by Amata555 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
watch my best friends wedding
2006-10-20 13:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by melinda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's been a year and he's found someone new. The only thing you can do is move on and put a happy face on for him. If you see him the only thing you can be is supportive of him. I know it sounds way hard to do, but dont ever let any guy see you cry. It makes them think they have power over you. You dont want that at all, just be strong, I know, I've been here before. It's hard, but you have to keep your chin up and dont let them see you cry. Goodluck babe
2006-10-20 20:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mandie E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, you guys were just not meant to be. It's hard to move on but he's got a girl now so you should start having your options open and allow other candidates in. Good luck.
2006-10-20 20:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...I think you may have missed your chance here. Is it possible that you are now interested because he is now unavailable? If he is in love with the girl he is with, I would cool it and direct my interest to someone else. As for "not amounting to the girl he's with".....Don't be so hard on yourself. Tell yourself that you are every bit as worthy as she is.
2006-10-20 20:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep u r a dummy a big one 2 how cud u let that catch go all u can do now is pray that they break up...oh no that would b bad all u can do is watch and well....
2006-10-20 20:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tish Tish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through that with my best friend. he really liked me 2yrs ago and i didnt realize it. when he told me i started getting feelings for him too but i didnt want to leave my boyfriend. he stopped talking to me for about 6 months, and ended up finding another girl. she was gorguous! i know i wouldnt have been able to add up to her either. i emailed him 6 months after we stopped talking and told him i was upset that we stopped being friends (we were really close) and we ended up getting close again. ive known him for 2 years and i think he still likes me, and i know i still like him but we decided we would just stay best friends, and just date other people. that way a relationship wont ruin our very close friendship.
2006-10-20 20:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never too good to keep looking back. Mistakes (if they were mistakes) are best forgotten. Look to the future and move on.
2006-10-20 20:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on...we make stupid choices in life, we cant repair them by hurting another human being...be a good girl and leave them alone..now maybe in a year or two...and they happen to break up...call him up and say hi...that is if u still like him....things change....and time heals all wounds...move on and move gracefully....
2006-10-20 20:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem last year, i thought he said who are you going out with. so now i wish i could go back in time so i can here him right
2006-10-20 20:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by *Nikki* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its a little late to be worrying about it now. Time to find somebody else...
2006-10-20 20:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him be. stay being his friend and dont interfere with his life and you MAY get another chance. but dont waste your life on what may happen. move on and you might find someone better.
2006-10-20 20:21:54 · answer #11 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋