My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday without an explanation why. I wasn't hungry at all yesterday, all I could think about was him so I didn't think about food. Today I felt hungry but when I tried to eat something I felt like I was going to throw up when I put the food in my mouth. I haven't felt hungry since. Now the thought of food makes me feel sick. I can only think about him, I don't feel like eating anything. Why?
2006-10-20 12:49:00 · 27 answers · asked by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to a doctor.
is the better way
I think you are very sad
2006-10-20 12:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Same thing is happening with me. Im never in the mood of eating anymore ever since this guy flirted with me all the time and even said he liked me and then just stopped talking to me and stopped being my friend. It's been two weeks now and I can finally put some foods down my throat. I will all be ok. Try to eat sweets and junk. It will help some what, or at least I hope.
Hope I helped you.
Krissi
2006-10-20 19:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where are you located? I can come over and fill ya up!!
J/K. Eating and sleeping are the worst two things after a breatkup...probably cuz they are things you are used to doing together. Cooking for one isn't much fun, but give it time. Honestly, before you know it....this will seem a bit silly, until next time it happens (sorry, just being honest) Life is an adventure with ups and downs and symptoms of each. Be strong for the moment, that's all you need.....oops, it's a new moment.
Go get 'em girl!!!
2006-10-24 02:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bastard broke your heart and the reason he did was some lameass excuse because he didn't really have the guts to say he wanted to see someone else. He hurt you deep inside and after he knew you love only him. Hey I know you really don't even want to see another guy right now but you need a good distraction. Double date with a friend or something harmless like a movie. share some laughs. Before you know it, he'll be yesterdays pancakes, wet soggy and good for the trash. Be well, take care of yourself.
2006-10-20 19:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your hurting inside which makes your stomach go crazy and im pretty sure your really stressed out. So it can cause you to lose your apetite. Don't worry it will come back soon just make sure you keep drinking liquids. Everything will be okay. If the guy broke up with you for no reason then he's a really big jerk and your better off without.
2006-10-20 19:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by bktp37 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Emotional gagging... I've heard of it, my niece does it when she gets upset... You're obsessing over the loss so much the body is rejecting everything....
My advice... Eat a few crackers.... Wait a little while... Drink a little water... Soft foods and your appetite should come back...
You also need to try and forget this guy... Why would someone break up with someone with no reason? Doesn't make sense...
When he comes back and says he wants another chance... Tell him to come back when he's man enough to treat a lady like a lady.
2006-10-20 19:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by James B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have a thought that you may look differently in his eyes and maybe he will come back to you. I think that because that is what happened to me when a boyfriend broke up with me. A lot of thinking after, I realized that I can't feel sorry for myself any longer, and even though my heart was broken, I forced myself to get out and have fun with my friends, I punched the crap out of my pillows and told myself that I deserve to live my life even after a guy broke up with me. You are just depressed right now, the best remedy is to have a girls night out and realize there is better out there for you.
2006-10-20 20:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call him but when you do just say you have one question and then you'll go. ask him what was the purpose for him breaking up with you and if it was over a misinterpretation then say the truth but if not just accept it but if you still want him dont give up on him.your reasoning for not eatin could be cuz your upset or hurting deep inside because you dont have an answer to why he did that but at the same time your upset.you should try to eat cuz the more you dont your just makin yourself sicker if it doesnt work out soon you'll see your better off and when you least expect it someone will come your way who will make you laugh and smile constantly and always wants you to be happy.hope everything works out.
2006-10-20 20:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by dimples 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that you had some pretty strong feelings for this guy. when my wife told me that she wanted a divorce I couldn't eat for almost 2 weeks. It's the emotional pain and shock of loosing someone that you love so dearly. In time you will get your appetite back.
2006-10-20 20:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by Phil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think all u gave to him was ur love that contained everything for you, i mean i surely trust you loved him, but dunt make a drama otta this, it's not worth it, everybody gets broken and the the worst thing is when that broken feeling doesnt stop. i did this once and it help'd me....i went in the near park, it wuz foggy and kinda cold, i stood on a bench for 2 hours, thinkin of myself, figurating why all of these are happening to me, as i stood there, i realised that the most important think is me and in front of my image there has to be no one, i thought of my life, what i did, what i wanna repair and what i wanna do and i realised when bad things happen i'm the only one that can make em up....anywayz..thats a part of my opinion...go somewhere..alone....think of u.....i hope it works...take care....Led rullz \m/
2006-10-20 20:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by Sk8PunK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definitely a combination of emotions and nerves. You've been emotionally shaken. I had the same problem after my break up. Just make sure that when u eat you're not around anything that reminds you of him.
2006-10-20 19:58:58 · answer #11 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋