Just because I have a myspace page. Does not mean any jackass can contact me and call me honey and ask to come over. And are their girls out there that are dumb enough to say OK? About half the guys are married. What's up with that?
2006-10-20 12:23:28 · 31 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It's public. Caveat Emptor.
2006-10-20 12:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, Perplexed you're exactly right. It doesn't mean that any jackass should contact u, but sadly there are them sickass guys who think it's ok (NOT including me, honestly.) Sadly tho, there are girls that without thinking thru about what's happened recently about kids being kidnapped or almost kidnapped from myspace do say ok. They should have a new myspace feature where a married person who tries to get with a minor or other aged people would contact their spouses and if u want, the police!! : )
And no, men don't have the right but those sick dudes think they do.
2006-10-20 13:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by searching_for_sneaks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to an episode of 20/20 on ABC aired Sept. 30, 2006 the average male is thinking about sex 52% of the time. To a male sex is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in life. To a female it is all in the RELATIONSHIP.
Most men and women don't understand how the other sex thinks, or what is the most important thing to them. To you your Myspace page is an invitation to start a conversation, to show a little of yourself and make friends. This is your instinctive need and determined by your sex and your biology. The best method for a woman to propagate the species is for them to find a loyal mate that will help them raise the child and protect them. The best way to do this is to establish the relationship.
To men the best way to propagate the species is to have sex with as many women and as quickly as possible. So some of these instinctive hound dogs are just looking for sex, and since it is the most important thing on their mind, they think it is the most important thing to you too.
You want to find a man that can rise above his base instincts and look at your needs before looking at their own. Think of all those guys who want sex as just losers that you can forget. Compose some sort of form letter for these guys:
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"Dear Sir or Madam,
I am not trolling for sex, I am only interested in establishing a relationship, and then IF sex happens it will happen because we love each other. I am not interested in a one-night stand with you. Please go look at a porn site to find what you need, this is not a porn forum and your interest is not desired."
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Men are going to look for sex on the Internet, and Myspace is cheap and easy to search so they are hunting there. Some figure that if they ask enough women they might get a positive response, most don’t, but it doesn’t stop them. Nothing turns off someone more than a form letter. You might even want to set up a new email address just to handle this garbage. Then only send that form letter message from that email address. You can go to the email address and just dump the contents into the trash. This way if the guy is going to be persistent then they may try to contact you at that email address. If they continue to go to your Myspace page and email you then keep sending them your form letter. They will give up sooner or later when they realize that they aren’t reaching you.
For more information on the differences between men and women and how it affects their thinking see my answer for this question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhrMq_Z_9YPW918ag8jmEyHsy6IX?qid=20060908130830AAz4Xnu (answer #8)
2006-10-20 12:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the internet is full of perverts looking for sex. MySpace has become known as a place to hook up with others. While this reputation may not be justified, this is what has made MySpace one of the biggest sites on the internet.
2006-10-20 12:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have contact information on there take it off, and can you not deny or ignore them. Some people just think they can act any kind of way, however, you have the power to ignore them and this is probably the best bet then they will move on and try the next person. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-20 12:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is your solution: Either find a picture of some other female who you find very unattractive, or take one of yourself that isn't flattering at all. The shallow types will not bother you again. (Maybe I should say as much) Instead you will get more people who are just purely into getting to know you and who you are. This is when you can reveal your true identity, if it pleases you.
Good luck Myspacing!
2006-10-20 12:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I experience that too. In chats like Skype I had pictures sent to me, online sex offers, mostly from sex-starved men from Middle East, getting rude and insulting answers if you don't care for this kind of smutty talk.
2006-10-20 12:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sternchen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way a lot of guys are. They think with the other head. If the girls are dumb enough to hook up with them, they get what they deserve. (Darwin) I've seen a lot of them on here who don't get jokes, sarcasm, etc.
2006-10-20 12:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is surely not the way to be. Have you got your address on your myspace page delete it
2006-10-20 12:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree.I went on line to a chat room for the first time and my first contact offered me the wonderful chance for a stranger to pay my bills and send me money,if I will berate him on line. what kind of nuts are out here ?That really pissed me off and I haven't been back yet. I will eventually find a better chat ,but I just don't get it and don't want it.
2006-10-20 12:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing gives them that right. However, everyone is entitled to their opinion to think whatever they think. Just ignore them or change Myspace in such a way that they don't want to do it to you anymore.
2006-10-20 12:26:17 · answer #11 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋