When should I kiss the guy of my dreams?? Alone?? While we're dancin..( too far away ) or when????
2006-10-20 12:06:09 · 16 answers · asked by J.D. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do it at a moment that seems magical to YOU. At the end of a slow dance does sound like a good time.
To a man a kiss is special, but not that special. To a woman it holds a much bigger significance. Most women want their first kiss to be "magical" and somehow they think that the guy does as well, and then they get disappointed when it doesn't go as they thought it would. It is not that men are pigs or stupid, it's all in how they think.
To a woman the relationship is the most important thing, and the two biggest steps in a male and female relationship are the first kiss and the first time you have sex. It is not about the act itself, as much as it is about what you are feeling and how this takes your relationship to a new level.
To a man sex (and a kiss) are big goals, but they look at it like a football player does when he scores a goal or runs a touchdown. It is more something to be accomplished than a magical moment. Men are more task oriented than relationship oriented. To him your first kiss would be great no mater where it happens, as long as it isn’t done in an embarrassing fashion.
It is all in the natural instincts. For more information on the differences between men and women and how it affects their thinking see my answer for this question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhrMq_Z_9YPW918ag8jmEyHsy6IX?qid=20060908130830AAz4Xnu (answer #8)
So, do it when the time feels special to YOU. If you do it at the dance then you are making a public statement, if you do it in the car, then it is a private statement. If you want it to be special then it is up to you to make its so.
Something romantic would be like both of you sucking on the same piece of noodle and then you lips meet in a kiss (Lady and the Tramp). If you want to do it on the dance floor when your favorite song is playing and under the lights then you have to make it happen (if you do that make sure it is a song that he will remember). Find a way to lure his mouth closer to yours, like you are whispering too softly and then make the kiss. It will be a pleasant surprise to him. The women who answer this question will give you a better idea on a romantic setting, but many of them won’t realize that for the kiss to be special you need to make it so.
2006-10-20 12:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on the mood. If you're both feelin' it then i say why not? Like yes, dancing would be the perfect oppurtunity cuz ur both really close and just intimately together.
Good luck ;)
2006-10-20 12:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a question.
Ok, I say tommorow. Why delay more?
What are you waiting for - the sky to fall? or is it the time, when you`ll learn to express what you feel freely without ridiculous shiness?
2006-10-20 12:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ateviel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the day of wedding! When you both dance to gather kiss him as much as you can !
2006-10-20 12:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-10-20 12:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by bloo b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should wait till the perfict moment. Have Fun
2006-10-20 12:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by *Music ♥ Love* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see him.
2006-10-20 12:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should kiss him when ur heart tells u to
2006-10-20 12:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by keyovasmith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't over think it, the right time will present itself and go for it.
2006-10-20 12:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before some other girl does would be my suggestion.
2006-10-20 12:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋