Or they just part of the fairy tale?
2006-10-20 11:47:01 · 48 answers · asked by Tara 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They only exist in fairy tales. I don't seem to meet any!!
2006-10-21 05:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jordaan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly do, been married to a nice guy for 18 years (after a not so good marriage to someone else - but even he's not so terrible any more now that he has married my best mate).
In addition I have 4 nice guy sons, two are married - one with children, no. 3 son is lovely but just not taken yet - his career has made it difficult to meet anyone - always working at night as a hospitality manager in a casino and my youngest an18 year old has just met the girl of his dreams and that looks set to last as they knew each other at school and she says she loved him from afar - although her friends got in the way at school so it didnt work, but now they are away from school and got together again after not seeing each other for a year, its great.
You need to join something social to find nice people - you'll never get anywhere unless the people you meet have plenty of interests other than just drinking and sitting in front of the tv.
I used to help out in an acting group for young people in an inner city environment - many came from poor families, but its amazing how many of the girls and the young men found nice partners - they learned confidence through the acting, dancing and singing - most had never had a dancing lesson in their lives but they enjoyed what they were taught and got lots of confidence through it.
My 18 yr old son has recently joined an acting group and in a very short time he is a much more outgoing person. He had a small part in a show and now he is happy to stand up and really dance. You should have seen him at his brothers wedding recently, jiving away, then at a friends 60 birthday party last week he stood up and did Karaoke. I couldnt believe it, but I could certainly see what his girlfriend saw in him.
Its all a matter of confidence and being able to let your hair down and have fun. His girlfriend who is 17 joined a jive class before she met up with him again and she is so full of life. They both have great fun together, they dont see each other every day, they treat each other with respect and are both living life to the full, together and apart in their own interests.
2006-10-20 12:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by ShumB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Colejoe79,and shamrock4 are correct,we are just too nice for some ladies,who like that "bit of rough--jack-the-lad" type.....untill they want to settle down,different matter then!!!There is no fairy-tale,we really do exist,give some of us a try sometime,you may be pleasantly surprised:-)
2006-10-22 02:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do i wouldn't have believed that 2yrs ago as i had a very bad past where men were concerned i also divorced 8yrs ago was separated for 4yrs before that it was a violent marriage i did not have another relationship for 8yrs and that ended badly i gave up but then i meet Robert and he is out of this world a total gentleman honestly i did not have much trust in men but Robert is changing that so keep an open mind there are some out there i wish you luck
2006-10-20 11:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by PAULINE R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They definitely do. I've met the nicest bloke ever, I'm all loved up and the fairytale seems to last forever x
2006-10-20 12:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by I-Love-My-Boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that so many of you girls on this site,ask this sort of question. Open your mind, of course there are millions of nice, decent, well educated men around - but you have to be in the same place as them, in order to meet them.
So if you are only meeting 'jerks', perhaps you aught to think about making some changes to your social lifestyle?
2006-10-20 11:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys do exist. I happen to be one of them they are a dying breed though. There are two reasons for this endangered species of gentleman (at least in my experience). 1) Women tend to get used to a guy that treats them with respect and cares to much for them, much like a child grows spoiled if you pamper them. 2)Nice guys finish last. I know it has been stated many times but it is tried and tested, women respond much better to a guy that treats them with indifference then to a guy that treats them with disrespect. Sad but true.
2006-10-20 11:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by shamrock421sd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are nice guys out there love, and I would like people to recognise me as one of them. Sorry but I am very happily married to my dear wife Babs, we celebrated 20 years of marrage this year.
She saved my life in jan 1994 when I suffered a brain haemorrhage, she still looks after me loyally, I also have renal failure and soon we will both be training to do home haemodialysis via a kidney machine, she will learn to stick 16 guage sized needles into my fistula on my arm, she was very sqweemish before about blood etc, but she has needled me for nearly 5 years for my diabetes, and now another injection twice a week called neuocormin ( epo ).
She even had the strength and guts to actually come into the operating theatre to watch me having my neckline taken out then later a temporary line put in my groin which I hated and was painful, but I had to do this as I caught MRSA, E-coli and scepticemia on my neckline. I have a new one in now, but as soon as my fistula fully developes, then it can come out, God love her, she is flat out sleeping on the couch, bless her she deserves and needs the rest.
So once again, the answer to your question is, yes there are nice blokes out there, and I do hope I am identified as one, I try, and due to serious health conditions, more than I have mentioned, do my best to be a nice respectable guy.
I am a big bundle of fun regardless of all my disabilities etc, in the renal unit in my bed, I have a tube comming out of my heart via my neck , and a needle in my left arm, when connected to the machine my blood starts circulating out of my neck, through the kidney machine and back into my body via a tube and needle into my left arm. So there I am lying there for 5 hours plus, others in the unit looking so miserable, so then nice Jimmy, that's me, start's to sing, allways look on the bright side of life, and then I have everyone cheered up as they are all laughing their heads off.
Hope this has answered your question, sorry my wife beat you to me, chances are, you may not have been born?
Lots of love and wishes, Jimmy ( Scottish ) living in Essex England UK. xx
2006-10-20 12:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by DIAMOND_GEEZER_56 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do I would think men maybe ask the same about women oh am a woman by the way
2006-10-20 13:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do exist Tara. Maybe u r just looking in the wrong place.
2006-10-20 11:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by expat0171 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋