I am kinda shy but i am told I am pretty. Should I be more bold or just sit around waiting for my prince....uggg
2006-10-20 11:13:57 · 13 answers · asked by sleepingbeauty89123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shy! That's cool 4 it is the necessity for a fair hearted gal.
Pretty! That's also fine.
Bold! What's this? Does not matters.
U are shy. that's very nice of a lady. It is the quality that defines a lady and differentiates her from a guy.
You are pretty, that's also good but really it is not a big factor for a real hearted prince. Consider for sometime that I am a prince then In my words.........Looks are not a factor for whom I will Love though I am a good looking personality because i love from my heart and It will be my heart that will choose a heart just like it. I will love someones heart not her face.
Consider a statement, Might be possible that if she is the fairest lady i have ever seen and due to that i love her. and In an accident she lose her beauty looks then should I leave her. No. Then why to love someone after seeing her looks. Though I know that she is not having good looks, however she be, she will be an angel 4 me and will be my dream girl.
And boldness has no value at all. It is true that maximum guys search for bold gals but do not search ur prince from such collections of guys because princes are rarely made and they think and go for what rare peoples think.
But Love doesn't means just Likeness, Lust, Luck, Loneliness, Friendship. It is neither the "LOSS OF VALUABLE ENERGY" . It is Life, sharing of feelings and thoughts, Joys and sorrows. It is Infact "LIFE , OF VALUABLE EMOTIONS". Feel It, Have It, Express It for "Love is such an addiction that even people who are not having it wish to experience and share it with others"
And finally I would like to say that love somebody who loves u and cares for u, not the one whom u loves. and never put conditions in love that, he whom u will love should be like this or like that and all. Because there is no space for agreements and conditions in love. Love is the mutual understanding of two souls. It is such an addiction that peoples who do not have it wish to have it,experience it and share it with others.
So U just hav just one option that do not change urself because if somebody loves u then he should love you, no matter how u are, and if he wants some changes in u so that u might become applicable for him after this changes then refuse such proposals because it will be an agreement and love is beyond conditions and agreements.
But let me clarify that I am not a prince...remember it.
Wait for ur prince and remember he will surely come to u because somewhere somebody is made for you.
2006-10-20 11:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Raj.. Jaane tu ya Jaane Na 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to sharpen your communication skills and get out and meet people. Like I told my friend, do you expect a guy to come knocking on your door looking for you? Very doubtful that will happen. You have to get yourself some confidence, honey, and get out there!
2006-10-20 18:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by MissHazel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun. The guy will come when you least expect it. If you are out there trying to find a guy then you will probably find the wrong one. Just be you and have fun, but don't be afraid to live, girl, LIVE!!!!
2006-10-20 18:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to be shy last year too but i got more confident n acted more silly n playfull but mature at the same time n now the lots of guyz like me
2006-10-20 18:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by && hOw dO i sAy i lUv u ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are waiting for a prince then you will remain alone all your life
2006-10-20 18:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by europe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, the prophet will find you. It doesn't matter if you're pretty or not, wearing a bhurka in the streets keeps you safe.
2006-10-20 18:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Great Muslim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no find the boy you like and send him love notes with out him seeing you and the dont right you name asnd when you feel comferbill tell him your name
2006-10-20 18:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kristen T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, he will come to you if he wants u. maybe make yourself more available, so its easier for them to approach u, but don't act desperate, thats disgusting!
I hope u find him. Good Luck
2006-10-20 18:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard this??
"my night in shining armor, turned out to be a loser in aluminum foil"
don't look, forget about love, i'm not saying block it out, if he comes there you go, but you don't have to go out looking for him
2006-10-20 18:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will find him when u least expect it! Do trust me on this one please. It got on my nerves SO much when people used to say this to me but it is true!
2006-10-20 18:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋