i really want to be happy. am lonely in this town with no real friends.just came out of a 5 year rlship that i put in so much effort but failed. God help me from frustration. there is raelly no one i can call my own
2006-10-20 10:49:42 · 5 answers · asked by isiwarenee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nobody can do this for you.....you are the only one. Happieness is not a destination, but a DECISION. Decide to find beauty in the smaller things in life, and decide to enjoy trying to improve. Get out and get involved. It is the only way to meet people. Create some momentum in your life and things will continue to move in the right direction.
2006-10-20 10:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1, another relationship in itself will not make you happy, it is only one element.
Take the time to find out about yourself. What do you enjoy? What did you love to do when you were a child? Write down a list of the things you enjoy and join some clubs around it or do something to benefit another around it. You will make really good friends who are a good fit for you and healthy.
Joy is not a destination but a process and a by-product of being who you are and doing what you are capable of and enjoy.
When the time is right to get out there and date again, you will know it. You will be more confident in yourself and not fall into another relationship where the other partner was not committed. I know about how that feels, just remember you are a good, loving person and deserve to be happy!
All the best of luck!
David
2006-10-20 17:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by David M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my world. I have been through numerous rejections and I am still alive. Do something. get into an activity, distract urself. U'll make frens along the way and u'll be happy. Next time, don't forget the outside world.
2006-10-20 17:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by IcyBlue2412 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need someone you can call your own to be happy it's with in yourself. the time will come when all the hurt and anger is gone and you'll be happy again
2006-10-20 17:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat some ex-ti-c
2006-10-20 17:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋