I really fancy this bloke and we have been chatting for a few months, but this week he has been online and although I've tried to start a conversation he hasn't replied I have sent him a couple of e-mails but yet he never replied.
I asked if we should meet up and he told me where abouts he lived and I hoped that it would have followed with an address later to tonight, but it didn't.
I feel like the biggest loser in town. Why did I get my hopes up for a date tonight when its obvious he isn't interested?
2006-10-20 10:43:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just stop pestering him. Maybe u had striked a nerve and he can't say anything to it anymore.
2006-10-20 10:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by IcyBlue2412 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lost interest or wasn't serious...
I think you should go about and fancy another bloke... However, for this evening, if you dont have any friends to hang around. You may try the blokes more women in the US favor on a dateless Friday/Saturday night.... Ben and Jerry (Ice Cream), a good movie for a good cry...
Then tomorrow set off on the new adventure of finding a guy(bloke) that you can make a better love connection... Sign this guy off and stop wasting your time...
2006-10-20 17:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like a loser,he's just a man.
They spook sooo easily girl.
Take a step back, don't hassle him, leave him be.
If he's interested he'll get in touch in some way.
If not, he won't, do you really want someone who you have to force a relationship out of?
I know it sound like such a crock but think that it's more his loss and feel better about you.
f you do, people around you notice the change, believe me it really works.
Hope it works out for you.
2006-10-20 17:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by DMar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll find someone else soon enough I'm sure. I'm going to get rejected tommorrow probably and she got my hopes up too...(see my blog on 360).
We just have to keep going my friend because if we stop we'll miss opportunities. I suppose it's like playing the lottery every week just in case. Have a nice evening anyway.
2006-10-20 17:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not beat yourself up about him, he is not worth it perhaps got a few girls on the go try to meet someone who you can talk to face to face not on the internet, some of them are very shady on there. Good luck to you and dont lose any sleep over him.
2006-10-20 17:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a new girlfriend and she was their, but he didn't want to say. Who knows what goes on in a mans head other than the most obvious. SEX
Take no notice and move on.
All the best.
2006-10-20 17:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by bizzybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems a bit hesitant, perhaps you need to either spell it out to I'm like I'm coming over are you interested!! If this doesn't work he does not want to know.... Good Luck!!
2006-10-20 17:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy obv isnt worth bothering about if he can realise tht a girl is rli interested maybe u should try a more up front approach sayin wot u think .
2006-10-20 17:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by lauren a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a loser!! he is the loser. A lot of men online give it all.. then silence.. do yourself and your mind a favour.. dump him. Treat him the same. If he contacts you then just ignore him. ..
kindest regards.. and keep your chin up.
2006-10-20 20:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by Chrisey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats sad! He just isn't that "into you", unfortunately.
Obviously this was a budding romance on-line..why not go out and meet some real genuine people....
2006-10-20 17:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't trust meeting someone on line by my self you never know what you will end up with. just email tomorrow saying what a great night out you had with the girls and what your going to be doin. maybe he will get jealous and start to write again but don't be too eager to answer. treat them mean keep them keen.
2006-10-20 18:14:58 · answer #11 · answered by angua1973 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋