my girlfriend recently broke up with me because she doesnt trust me, ive never gave her any reason to besides once with a small white lie. she says that its cuz shes a ***** and doesnt trust anyone but i hate hearing that. it seems like she wants to break up with me every chance she gets. weve had a thing for about 6 months now and i really love her. i try everything to make her happy and when i see her she seems so happy, but when she goes home and talks to me online, she suddenly gets upset and doesnt trust me. weve sortof broken up a week ago but it was just cus she was mad we were back together the same day. this time is different she said some really harsh things, like she hates me, doesnt trust me, and doesnt need a boyfriend etc. ive explained everything to her and just blows me off and ignores me. she blocks me online for 5 minutes when i try to explain myself then unblocks me. i have to go out of town this weekend for my gramps bday and she doesnt believe it. is she just mad?
2006-10-20 10:43:12 · 4 answers · asked by Derek Lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive never cheated on her, never will, i love this girl with my life and dont know what id do without her. my friends tell me that shes just "fronting" to test me to see if id come back to her, but i dont see it as that simple. i really dont want to lose her and want to know whats going thru her mind from a womans POV. is she just mad? testing me? is she really ending our relationship? or does she just not care about me? weve known each other for about a year and a half now, had a lot of history together for 6 months, and finally starting going out a month ago. i told her a white lie 2 weeks ago, she didnt trust me after that, then a week ago she tried to break up with me, but we got back together the same night, and now shes breaking up with me saying she doesnt want to be with me, never using the words im breaking up with you. im confused and need help. also, another friend of mine is going out of town too, and she thinks that we are going partying, but im not going to be with him.
2006-10-20 10:47:36 · update #1
i do reassure her that im not lying, i tell her EVERYTHING, i never lie to her, yet she still doesnt believe me. everyone tells me that im too good for her because i treat her like a queen, yet she treats me like crap, but i love this girl to death and i dont want to lose her. i just want to know from what ive told, is she just mad? or does she really want to end this relationship? she has been hurt in the past, shes been cheated on. i would never do that tho. i do everything i can to make her happy, suprise her when she gets off work with flowers, buy her gifts, she wants to give me a necklace i gave her back because she thinks that its been on another girl even after i swore to her it hasnt.
2006-10-20 10:53:33 · update #2
She has obviously been hurt in the past and been lied to. She's probably scared to death of getting hurt again. Perhaps your not giving her any reason not to trust you but she has become so distrustful that she cant tell the difference. Its hard when somebody gets to that point. She should go speak to a counselor. All you can do to help is to continue to reassure her that nothing is going on.
Telling a white lie is telling a lie. I'm the same way as she. Once someone lies to me I have an extremely hard time trusting them again.
2006-10-20 10:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is playing with your heart, you should move on and forget about her. It seems like she doesn't care about you, don't let her constantly break your heart like that. Ya ll need to have a serious talk, your to good of a person to let her treat you this way.
2006-10-20 11:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by darkcutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's mad. Don't get back with her... She has serious anger management issues. If she's ever angry, she'll vent her anger on you.
2006-10-20 10:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup
2006-10-20 10:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋