ok, so theres this guy who I met and we meet up quite often as "**** buddies", now this isnt a problem for me as I enjoy being single and free and obviously as a woman have my needs.
But I was just wondering how men feel about women who are ok with such a casual relationship?
Also there is always the risk of someone feeling more, if this was to happen would you be able to move into a serious relationship with a girl who has only ever been about the physical side of things? Would you judge a girl for that?
Your advice would be very helpful and appreciated
2006-10-20 10:42:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suppose the way men would feel about such a casual relationship might also run the gamut of emotions. Some men will develop a desire for a comittment and others will develop a desire for more ****Buddies like you are for them.
I would be able to see past the history, myself, because people grow and evolve and change within the time-span of their own lives - but if I saw history repeating itself I'd be outta there in a heartbeat.
I suppose some men might wonder if you will change your mind in the future and want that old life back... and some women may indeed want it back periodically. so... sword cuts both ways.
2006-10-20 10:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Clout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly what I would think, probably a few months into the relationship if it did indeed work out that way... I would think "how many guys BEFORE me was she **** buddies with." And that might make me feel wierd. Even if you said none, there is still that little doubt, because he knows what you two are doing together, and he wouldnt want you to have done that with some other guy. In my honest opinion, I think it would be a little wierd to start a relationship after just being **** friends.
2006-10-20 10:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Steven S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, they would think they found a gem in you being so liberal with your body and theirs. After all, men are men.
Your question is valid not only for you but also your partner. Either of you could eventually feel more but neither of you could be sure it was love nor certain that there won't be other men or women "buddies" in each other's lives from then on.
It's never too late to stop and think whether you want or should continue in this "buddies" thingy. If you treasure and value yourself, others will value you too.
2006-10-20 11:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by dickson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men don't have no problem being F**** buddies. if anything, thats what we want most of the time. recall the episode of seinfeld where Elaine & jerry were F*** buddies. men would love to in that type of friendship. friendship LOTS of benefits.
however, when somthing comes along where some is having more feelings, it might be time for the party to move on. personally i wouldnt want to get serious w/ any woman that had such a past. thats too much for me to handle and the fact that she had that many partners, i'd be quite uncomfortable.
2006-10-20 10:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by wizeguy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-01 00:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a very broad question.And unfortunately it all goes back to Sigmund Freud.The best I can tell you is that it depends on the man.If you really want to know ,talk to his mother and see if you can find out what values were instilled in him at an early age..
Many men would regard you as a tramp.Many would appreciate your open attitude.Of course the man with the open attitude will expect you to reciprocate.AND accept his casual relationships
2006-10-20 10:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Paul I 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i stoped at **** buddys cause i done heard this story like 700000000000000000000000000000000000000 times, first off me personally i won't date a girl who has had a sex buddy, second off yes there are risk's to someone to get hurt, and thirdly, u can only live on life or the other a real loving realationship or one night stands, most people wont take a used up girl i know i won't
2006-10-20 10:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean a **** buddy would be nice, but too ME
chemistry is more important,
and,i guess sorry, im being truthful ok.
i would think your a whore,
until i got to know you, and such,
and about your "needs"
2006-10-20 10:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that i would judge you as somewhat of a whore (please don't take that offensively). Shallow guys who are only in relationships for that purpose probably would disagree with me though. It really does depend on if the guy is shallow (just wants you for that reason) or someone who wants a relationship. I don't know if i speak for the majority of men with this this, but i do speak for men with a little more than sex on the mind.
2006-10-20 11:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Agent Buckwald! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be in relationships that are just physical, it will screw you in the end. also, casual relationships are good for some, but not others, and deep relationships are good for some, but not others. there are many different types of people, you should find someone who you like, and who sincerely likes you. that is what your goal should be, you should go with what's on the inside, not on looks, money, or possessions, money can't buy happiness.
I'm sure a lot of assholes are making dumb *** remarks, but don't let them fool you, believe in what I've told you.
p.s. don't look to hard, just put it in god's hands.
p.s.s. try to find one great guy and stick with him, as explained in the metaphor below:
commitment is like being in the national guard, you don't see as much action as the front-line, but there's much less of a chance of getting killed.
2006-10-20 10:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋