Would it be wrong for me to love someone who is just going through puberty while I'm towards the end of my high school ordeal?
What if this person is not yet in the mindset of love?
We really like spending our time together except everything is very innocent and hush.
What should I do or say--?
2006-10-20 10:19:18 · 10 answers · asked by fake_pierce 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not wrong to love them, but it is wrong as an older person to manipulate the younger person's feelings which they may not understand yet. Try and find someone closer to your own age for now. Maybe when this younger person is older than puberty, you could try a relationship again.
2006-10-20 10:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to say things about young love. I think it is a very hard subject to pin point for a young mind. The girl isn't knowledgeable quite yet of what the real world holds for her/him, so they are very likely to take what is available to them. They need options and to be open to see what is else out there for them. If they only see you and don't explore they will run from you, but its best to leave things alone. Let them mature more and may be it will work. But there are never any 100% that it will work your way. Don't get the poor child into trouble or yourself, it's best this way!
2006-10-20 17:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with this. I mean, well it is kind of odd that you are considering or dating someone that is just " growing up. " You must remember, they may be different when they do come out of puberty, mentally. Age is just a number I think. If you love someone then it should be for who they are not what they are on the outside and I give you props for that.
2006-10-20 17:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bad idea. You are ready for sex, this younger person is no where near ready. If you have sex with them now and they're not ready, it could have bad effects that can last for years. Do not pursue the relationship.
Age doesn't matter, usually, but when you're dealing with practically an adult and a pre-pubescent person, that's a very, very bad idea.
I hope you are at least under 18. If you're over 18, then get ready for jail.
2006-10-20 17:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. It's trouble. If things get out of control, you could be facing legal charges, and at the very least, someone so young isn't really an appropriate love interest, and there's probably a reason you're attracted to someone that young that you aren't really aware of.
2006-10-20 17:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by wynterwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experts are now claiming that adolescent males do not mature until in their mid to late 20's. You are probably the same age as she is emotionally. However, you should admire her from afar and keep your hands off of her. As far as physical development goes you are bordering on danger.
2006-10-20 17:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the poor girl alone , if you two really love each other then wait until she's 18 then at least you won't go to prison ! Try and look for older girls for the moment !
2006-10-20 17:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by La parisienne ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's just nasty, you're at the end of high school and in love with a 13 year old?
2006-10-20 17:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but you might wanna wait before doing anything serious. After all, if you, say, give a $20 bill to a toddler, what use will he have for it?
2006-10-20 17:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, don't take away there innocence because it is the most precious thing that they could have.
2006-10-20 17:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by SimplyMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋