OK lets start with my "Buddy" we'll call him "James". I have known James for about 2 1/2 years and we dated off and on for about 1 1/2 years of that. He is a really sweet wonderful guy. We were never BF/GF so I can't even classify him as an ex.
My Boyfriend we'll call him "Nick". We met about 6mo ago and really hit it off. We have prety mych been together since. Also a realy sweet wonderful guy.
Nick lately has been very distant... Not really coming over anymore, calling, texting ect. But at the same time he just started going back to school. We never go out, I think he has told me that im pretty like 2-3 times in 6mo. I actuially have no idea how he feels about me.
Now James on the other hand has told me that he made a huge mistake not making me his girlfriend when he had the chance. He always tells me that I am beautiful, and perfect, exactly what he wants. I talk to him alot and sometimes feel a little guilty because I have a BF.
What would you do? work on the relationship or..
2006-10-20 09:55:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really love my BF and want to be with him but is it worth it or am I wasting my time?
I would NEVER cheat on him either!
2006-10-20 09:57:32 · update #1
well lets see your boyfriend is more and more distanced? ask him why? ask him where does he see him self in the next...?
if he doesnt see himself with you then theres your answer... if he does well see how, and ask him to make time for you but if he dosnt have time for you then you are wasting time... cos James Loves You and he Wants You... do you want him?
2006-10-20 10:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by ██████████ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is a long time. If your boyfriend doesn't act like he is at all interested and barely talks to you and there is a guy who adores you and always thinks about you then why are you still this guy's girlfriend? You should definitely at least consider dumping him and move on to your buddy he sounds so much nicer
2006-10-20 09:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should break it off with "Nick" since you don't see it going any further, and it isn't fair to lead him on. I'd go for James if you really like him that much, and he probably likes you a lot too.
Good luck! ^_^
2006-10-20 09:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other guys dont know what they are talking about, the average size is 10 inches so at least you got a little one to practice on first, but be careful with the next guy you meet
2016-05-22 05:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
def go back to james.. your wasting your time with the other guy. a guy should tell you your beautiful every day even when you feel like you look awful
2006-10-20 10:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by xtropicaldreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them both go you are to confused to make a good decision so let them go before you hurt them both and lose all hope for friendship.
2006-10-20 10:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by lovelovelyme23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the bf what his feelings are, if he avoids answering you just break up with him and go with the other guy.... i personally wouldn't get with someone trying to make me work for his affection!
2006-10-20 09:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant start dating a f*ck buddy. Its against the rules.
2006-10-20 09:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
see thats why I love being single no oblegation I just do wtf I want and go f*** anybody I want but for your case go with what makes you happy seriously if james makes you hapyy then forget nick or vice versa good luck
2006-10-20 10:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see either. SOunds like you're just looking for somone to tell you your pretty? Neither of them needs that.
2006-10-20 10:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋