So my brother in law lives up North , and the rest of the family lives in Texas . I ran into his ex and she told me she was having thier baby in 3 weeks and that they were married ( which we didn't know ) she also told us that when she told him about the baby he said it wasn't his and sent her home .
The family wants to be in the babys life but the father doesn't , I feel like the family is going to fall apart if we decide to be a part of the babies life . What is the best way to have the baby in our lives without my brother in law disowning us .
2006-10-20 09:50:49 · 3 answers · asked by Zero end 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Perhaps your brother in law should have a paternity test done.This will confirm if he is in fact the father.Even if he wants nothing to do with the baby the courts will order him to support his child.Cu dos to you and your family for accepting the child and giving her an extended family.Unfortunately not all people have the ability to do the right thing.Your brother in law is still a boy.You cannot be alienated from your brother in law, he has set up barriers not you.Don't let his guilt alter your decision,he is accountable for his own actions.
2006-10-20 10:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by gussie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In order to be in the baby's life you have to be in the mother's life, since the brother-in-law isn't participating. Do what your heart tells you. He may have his reasons but you need to do what you feel is right.
2006-10-20 17:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to be in the babys life then be in its life. and tell ur bro that not having ur father in ur life can mess u up 4 life. i should kno
2006-10-20 17:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by tianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋