Will he run
or
not run
I told him he could do what he wants, I am keeping the baby. we don't know each other...
2006-10-20 09:03:49 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Weather it's a one night stand or not shouldn't make a difference. It's a baby he'll either be a man or he'll run like a little boy. I hope he's a man but if not you can do it your self. I raise two girls on my own and I wouldn't change a thing.
2006-10-20 10:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what type of guy you're talking about. Sounds like he may deny responsibility, at least until a paternity test can be performed. After all, most guys will assume that if a woman has a one night stand, she's had them before. How can he truly know that he's the only one she's been sleeping with.
Hate to say it but you may be on your own with this one until the baby is born, unless he's a really upstanding guy which i'm unsure of since he had a one night stand as most upstanding guys would rather get to know the woman first.
You should be lucky you're not HIV positive and i'd strongly advise against having one night stands in the future for this very reason.
2006-10-20 09:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by 11:11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think He Will Probably Run Unless He Actually Is A Real Man And Takes Responsibility.
But How To Really Decide You Havent Really Said Anything About Him Other Than He Was A One Night Stand....Did Ya Know Him First, Does He Have Other Kids, Does He Want Them, Is He Stable, Etc...................
2006-10-20 09:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Paradise * 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a shame, that's why I don't agree with one night stands (getting all preachy here!) as sex is too big a deal to mess around with, especially when you dont even know the person. This wil change your entire life so make sure it's the right decision for you and you're prepared to cope no matter what. It's unlikely the dad will want to be involved so you have to assume you're on your own. Good luck.
2006-10-20 09:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell him that he could do whatever he wants?Legally that's not even an option. The two of you conceived this child and there is so much to be taken into account here. For example, who will raise the child, who while support the child financially, and where will the child go if something happens to its primary caretaker. I understand that you don't know him but for the sake of your child get to know the facts about him (i.e. his health information , SS # for child support and or his family). Wheather or not he's staying is not the issue. Who he is-is the most important thing here-Get to know his information for the sake of your child. Be blessed.
2006-10-20 09:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day its your body and your life your giving up. If you want to keep the baby then good luck to you hope everything goes well, but please understand that the child has a right to know who there father is. Thats when sometimes the child gets hurt through no fault of its own. Good luck anyhow hope all goes well xxxx
2006-10-20 09:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by spensmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm he might not run but he wont think is his till the baby is born. Are you sure you should keep it ?, are your ready to take care of a new human 24/7. Having a child is like having the most presiouse, valuable gift anyone can give you...but you have to spead the REST of your life taking care of this gift
2006-10-20 09:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by I think of you I touch Myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, well 1st of all i want to say i'm sorry it happened like that but it can happen to the best so..
depends on the guy , hopefuly he will still want to be involved in the baby other way dont force it remember u can make him pay child maintenance and all that but u cant make be a DAD so ... only time will tell.
best of luck to you and the baby hope everything turns out ok
2006-10-20 09:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup he will run unless he's a sensative guy and cares about the child enough to create a relationship with you. Next time- get on the pill don't be so dumb or you'll end up with 4 kids from different men
2006-10-20 09:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any other details , but I'm sorry to say...He's History! It's just a guess since I don't know all the details. You just might have a big decision ahead of you. Mamas baby, Daddy's maybe! I'll be looking for you on Maury!!!!
2006-10-20 09:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋