We are both students in a foreign country and he has a girlfriend in Africa. I fell in love with him and I want to date him but I don't know how.
2006-10-20 08:55:57 · 12 answers · asked by Feynman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn girl find your own man! Don't be stealing him because his love in far away. How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot? For every action there is a re-action, you don't want to be the one to ruin it for them. They will do it themselves, then you pick up the pieces.
2006-10-20 09:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an easy one. Listen up kids.
Just be there for him. Listen carefully to what he has to say and be supportive. You will gain his trust and then at some point he will start to complain about her or this situation with her. That's when you agree with him and tell him how you can see how bad things are. Then you figure out a way to make things better for him or take his mind off her. Figure out what he like to do and do those things with him.
Right now you have the home field advantage since you are with him and she is not. You should go out drinking with him and bond. When you start to feel that you two are getting closer then get him drunk and start asking him questions about the two of you. The booze will allow him to tell you if he does have feelings for you.
He's not married so he is open game for anyone. Marriage and dating are two different worlds.
Good luck, be smart and strategic. You'll get him.
2006-10-20 09:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jerrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion to you is never steal another man from anyone it will come back to hunt you. If the opportunity presents itself in the future than jump on it. But always be mindful that you are dealing with a man and they have no sense so if you were to get all sexied up and smell all godd and laugh at all his jokes he may fall into your web by "accident" if you know what I mean.
2006-10-20 09:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can try - but u cant make them fall in love with you, just be there for him on a frienship level and if it goes further good - but if not its nothing you can do about it - he may really love this other girl - and who are you to try to destroy love, if he left her for you - he would be the type of person that would leave you for someone else - what comes around - goes around ya know...
2006-10-20 09:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your learning young, he has a lady!!! Leave him alone!! if he wants anything to do with you like that he will say something. Don't set yourself up to be a mistress all your life. Get your own man.
2006-10-20 08:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but an idea is to kill the girl in africa and ask him out. he will be so sad he will say yes
2006-10-20 08:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Matthew S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you for wanting to break up a relationship! Shame!
Just kidding, but seriously, how about just telling him?
2006-10-20 08:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE anyone be your boyfriend. If it's meant to be, it will be. Don't ever try to break another couple up...you wouldn't want that to happen to you.
2006-10-20 09:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with him but NEVER let him onto your feelings. LDR never work. It will happen- men cheat, you'll get there- don't worry.
2006-10-20 09:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by red2queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i'd hate to bust this to you
but you can't make someone fall in love with you
2006-10-20 08:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋