I have this friend, my best friend since I was 8, I can’t stop thinking about his mother. Actually I think I might be in love with her, It hasn’t always been like this, it only started about 6 months ago, after she got divorced. She’s 39 and I’m only 23, but my biggest fear is ruining my friendship with someone who’s like a brother to me. I’ve stayed at their house a thousand times, but last week I spent the night and I noticed she changed clothes after he went to bed, she came back into the living room where I sacked out on the couch in only a night shirt, and from what I could tell,,, NOTHING on underneath. She was defiantly dropping hints, about how it was cold in her room and there hadn’t been any heat in there for almost a year. I played dumb… frankly because she scared the **** out of me. Don’t get me wrong she is sexy as hell, and up till now I’ve only been with one girl…. But I haven’t gotten a thing done all week. I want her so bad I can taste it… But I know what I would so if my best friend screwed my mom, I’d never talk to him again… after I kicked his *** around the block….. It’s all I can do not to call her and ask if she got her heat fixed yet..
I'm not looking for advice on getting laid....I guess I was reacting to being in shock from the possibility that she could actually be interested in me. I care about her a lot, and want to take care of her, I think my feelings are sincere, and if it weren't for the fact of her being my best friends mom, I think I could spend the rest of my life with her and be happy
2006-10-20 08:51:47 · 28 answers · asked by Chip S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so in 20 years when your 43 and shes 60 how will you feel about here then ? You'll end up gething divorce and gething married to someone in her mid 20's. I'm sure of it. Do yourself and your friend mom a favore. Don't act on it, meet someone your own age or that is not you bestfriend mom if you like MILFS ok, I mean its not worth is, her family, your bestfriend/ her son, your family...the'll all end up hating you and not having respect for you if you do this...so just don't
2006-10-20 08:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by I think of you I touch Myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off.....your dreaming! Wake up and smell the coffee. She is 39 and just divorced, you are 23 and seems like you still need to grow up. Your friend , I assume is the same age, is still living at home and you are "sleeping over". I have doubts you are 23 but if so, how in the world are you going to take care of her??? This mature women is not looking for another husband or even someone to take care of her. If she wants you it is for sex with a young stud and thats all. So get the dream of love and life out of your head. Sleep with her if you want but don't take it serious. It probably would be great and a high point of your life but as for your friend, well thoroughly think about the friendship and if it is worth the drama. It usually aint.
Im not trying to put you down just trying to let you see it for what it is worth not the way you are dramatizing it to be.
2006-10-20 09:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me why ruin a friendship over sex, that is essentially what this is all about. You have millions of choices in women, don't screw your friendship up over screwing your friends mother. It may seem exciting and sure you may be attracted to her, but what if you do it and it isn't what you expected and you loose you best friend all in the same breath? Then you will really be out in the cold, no best friend and no good sex......Let it be a fantasy and leave it at that.
2006-10-20 09:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by outlook0330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, from what you said she is almost definetly interested. But about your friend, most guys I know would have the same reaction as you say you would if their best friend did their mom. My advice would be to decide which is more important:your friend or his mom, or you could try to ask your friend. Whetever you do Don't try something behind your friend's back.
2006-10-20 09:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by ****Lily**** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sucks for you, huh? Unfortunately, remember that she IS your best friend's mom, and even if someday you are no longer best friends with this guy, he will still be in HER life. So if you tried to have a relationship with her, he would be there in a REALLY strange capacity. You would be a "stepfather" sort of role to him, which would pretty much destroy any friendship you had with him, and would likely destroy his relationship with his mother.
Not worth it. If you wanna get laid, be SNEAKY and careful, hit it once, and then GET OUT. You will be SORRY if you try to pursue her.
2006-10-20 08:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by stillstanding 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey!! all i can tell u is to watch out before u fall into big trouble. you will definately lose ur friendship if u go ahead with what 's in your thoughts. If its possible get her a new heater so she stops buging you. i think u should stay away from her before she seduces you one of these days.
2006-10-20 09:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by pebbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over with your friend as awkward as that might be, and tell him how you feel. Then do what is in your gut... Not your emotions, fears, and not your other head, but your gut.
I find that 99% of people know what to really do.
2006-10-20 09:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by DJ n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are SURE she feels the same then follow your heart and before any thing serious happens the 2 of you need to have a talk with your friend. good luck
2006-10-20 08:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you are not in love with her, you are in lust with her. Let me think about when I was 23 what I would have done. Ok bang the sh it out of her, she can teach you things that your friend sure cant.
2006-10-20 08:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey...she is definitely sending you signals...she has needs and drives just as you have and finds you very attractive...I have flirted with some of my son's friends as well....some are afraid but no one has ever rebuffed my efforts ...they all appreciate what they see and some take advantage of the situation presented to them
2006-10-20 10:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by joyce smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋