my bf says he doesnt like to talk about feelings, and he says thats how most guys are, they like a girl that acts like one of them and doesnt start drama or fights and just goes on about life thinking everything is great. but how are you suposed to have a realtionship if you dont talk about your feelings? How does a girl really know what a guy is thinking if they dont say it?
2006-10-20 08:51:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it it true. Are you new to this planet?
You all don't need to know what we are feeling. If it is important enough, we might tell you. Otherwise, leave it alone.
2006-10-20 09:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It generaly takes alot more coaxing to get us men to talk about our feelings. Generaly you can tell what we are thinking about by our body language, its pretty easy to tell if we are irratated, angry, happy or upset about something. Really there is no problem in thinking that life is great, if you have a positive outlook than life really is great. Talking about feelings is not all a relationship can be based off of, having a good time with each other and several other variables.
2006-10-20 08:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it, men and women are wired differently -- it's more than just sex organs. I have an interesting book called "The Wonder of Girls" (which I got when my daughter was born) and one of the interesting things in there is that girls are much more perceptive to other peoples' feelings. That is, they showed pictures of peoples' faces to both men and women and women (on average of course) were much better at identifying the mood of the person in the picture simply by their facial expressions. Women and girls are much more in tune with feelings and emotions.
Also, many men don't like to talk about feelings because often times it is really hard to articulate what they are. When it comes to taking a look inside oneself to figure out how one feels, it's like you have an electron microsope and he's wearing his nephew's got coke-bottle glasses.
2006-10-20 09:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by dsr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most are like that. That is why they use drugs, drink, crave sex etc. They need to talk about their feelings and be human and that would prevent most of their problems. Society has encouraged men to be tough and suck up their feelings...that is stupid. Why does having different sex organs change the human needs? It doesn't. We need to teach men that by talking about how they think and feel does not make them less of a man it makes them more of a man! A real man is secure in his manhood and doesn't need to comply to others telling him what does and does not make him manly! Go men. Open up & talk. You will feel better and relationships will improve. Great subject!!!
2006-10-20 08:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women's intuition. As silly as this sounds you'll just know. When things are going well you'll feel like you're walking on clouds and he won't have to say anything. When things aren't you'll just sense it and probably demand to know what's wrong and probably piss him off in the end but at least you'll know...I've also learned if you start holding back a little w/your thoughts and feelings he'll open up more....
2006-10-20 08:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kyppa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they do like to talk about their feelings... but they only tell all those things to the RIGHT person :)
P.S by the way, the stupidest question the girl can ask a guy is:
"Do you love me? "
2006-10-20 08:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many guys don't like to talk about their feelings. some guys can talk about them but doing it is a little hard. some just say what's on their mind (only a few though).
2006-10-20 08:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men keep it inside...men dont like to cry...we tend to play the macho part. To be the leader in a relationship, we have to be rock hard and most times un-movable...But, it reality, we have as a general rule, all the emotions that you women have...we just refuse sometimes to let it out...that's just my opinion....
2006-10-20 08:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Males tend to consider their feelings as their inner self wherein everything is hidden for no one else to see. Women are more open to others and share alot.
2006-10-20 08:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have a real hard time with this, yes!!!
2006-10-20 08:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋