my bf is in the 8th grade and goes to middle school ((im not in ima freshaman)) Today at lunch there was some things that happened and some how i ended up getting kissed by this guy. This guy lets call him.... Billy. Billy likes me... I feel so horriable right now! I shouldnt have let Billy kiss me but i did. Am i doing the right thing by telling my bf? Plz help me!! Should my bf forgive me?
2006-10-20 08:32:05 · 17 answers · asked by confused_mexican 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, calm down. It is not as horrible as it sounds. Take a couple of hours to think and theny decide what to do. I would tell my boyfriend what happened, just as youy told the story here:
. he kissed you
. you did not react as you wished you do.
. you feel horrible.
i would tell him cause it is quite probable that somebody else might have the brilliant idea of sharing the news with him.
Now, he es probable goign to be angry for a while. well, it is his right. Now, do not allow him to "boss you around" forever because of this. You made a mistake, if he is NOT truly capable of forging and moving on from this, which, really, is NOT terrible, then break with him and thank the other guy for letting you know how he really is.
much luck
2006-10-20 08:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean is there anyway that your boyfriend can find out ? Are there chances of you gething with this "Billy" fellaw ? If no and no to both of these question then you don't need to tell your boyfriend, I mean at the age he probobly would forgive you, but still, if there no reason rather than the "guilt" feeling then just don't think about it and move on with you life and just keep that as one of does little secrets. Anyhow sweetheart you have a long way to go in life, you'll be ok.
2006-10-20 08:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by I think of you I touch Myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first, did u know he liked u before he kissed u? if so then ur bf might find it harder to forgive u. i think u r doing the right thing by telling him, cuz if u don't and he somehow finds out later, he'll be even madder. it also depends on what kind of relationship u have. i.e, do u argue a lot, have either of u ever lied to the other........etc. if ur relationship is strong enough, u'll get thru this. i think ur bf should forgive u for the simple fact that u feel so bad about it. if he feels that u r really sorry, he'll forgive u.
2006-10-20 08:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by rieshafreeman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself why did you let this guy kiss you? over think who you really want to be with and if your bf forgives you will it happen again or would you like it to happen again? Go to your bf and tell him the truth if you dont than most likely he will hear it from someone else and wont forgive you for sure, if he hears it from you than there is more of a chance he will forgive..not saying that he will. Explain to him that you did something that you wish you could take back and that your telling him because you want this relatinship to be based on honesty, tell him your side of the story and go from there, give him a few days to think about it and respond back to you. If he fogives you than make sure it wont happen again, and if he doesnt than let this be the lesson for you to learn and dont do it again to your next bf.
2006-10-20 08:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young for things to be too serious. This is not to put down your age, but when you are this young things do not last. People will kiss, relationships come and go. Yes you need to tell him, because someone will. Better to come from you than a school friend. Will he forgive you, probably. Will he stay with you, probably not but maybe. In either case it is unlikely that you guys were going to be together forever, so do not sweat it too much. Live, learn, and try to do better in the future.
2006-10-20 08:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by Craig B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you cant stand the guilt - keep it to yourself - u will only hurt your bf by telling him - that is if you know that you will not take that kiss any further.. if you are interested in the other guy - tell you current bf the truth now and save him alot of hurt later - never kiss and tell....somethings are better left unsaid - it was after all, just a kiss, not like you guys ran away and got married.
Let it go...
2006-10-20 08:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your BF should forgive you. You are being honest with him and besides, it's not something you did or wanted to do, Billy kissed you.
2006-10-20 08:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by gab_b_i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you would want if the same thing happen with him. Would you want him to be honest with you or lie to you. You are young but not to young to be setting a pattern for yourself, you have the opportunity to learn to always be open and honest in your relationships and know that if it is meant to be it will and if not it won't. So be true to yourself and your boyfriend too! Good Luck!
2006-10-20 08:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell him - it will only hurt him more if he finds out from someone/somewhere else. Plus your honesty will show him you really care for him and his trust. But if you really want to make it work, don't let it happen again! ;-) I think your bf should forgive you, as long as you stay true to your promise that you won't let it happen again.
2006-10-20 08:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by Eliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, don't you think he will find out from someone even if you didn't tell him? I am not sure he will or should forgive you. If he doesn't, chalk it up to a learning experience - there are lots of fish in the sea, you are young!
2006-10-20 08:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋