Im the oldest with younger kids but im stuck with out them! ( my brothers) My parents are in there own lil world and include me when its convieint! I need a reason besides my kids to keep going!
2006-10-20 08:31:51 · 5 answers · asked by serenity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have no experience in this personally. I am sorry to hear of your loss. It sounds like you are all your kids have and you have the opportunity to be there for them. You may want to seek counseling for your loss but keep in mind that your children watch you and learn to deal with things according to how you deal with them. As far as your parents go.... you have to let them deal with things however they deal with them, you lost your brothers and they lost their children. Keep an open communication with them and when they get thru their pain you will still be there for them. Good Luck and God bless!
2006-10-20 09:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for what your going thru. It's got to be really tough on you. I know you said you need a reason besides your kids to go on but don't you think giving up would be selfish to your kids? They need you more then anyone and I"m sure if your brothers were here they wouldn't want you to give up but instead go on. Hang in there.
2006-10-20 18:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tragity in itself, but I think your children should be enough. Hope fully someday they will give you grandchildren and thats something to look forward to. Always remember your brothers and teach your children of them. Life goes on.
2006-10-20 15:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's your reasons your soul, and your children. You don't want your children blaming you for not being a parent to them.You don't want the evil one to get your soul.Take your heart to Jesus and let him heal it for you. I'm sorry for your lost.
2006-10-20 16:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow was it a illness, tragic or murder? because how they died will depend how you can deal with it. meanwhile get some counseling. that's the best thing to do when you cant cope with family death.
2006-10-20 15:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋