Can males out there honetly answer the following question? What is a real put off when it comes to persuing a female:
Weight? Too Skinny? Spots? Manner? etc........................please let us ladies know..................
2006-10-20 08:18:43 · 24 answers · asked by Nollaig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I look for is a nice, sweet girl. Somebody who doesn't party too much, but isn't opposed to a little bit of mischief. Somebody who has goals, dreams and motivation to achieve everything. Also, somebody who needs me just as much as I need them.
In terms of physical features, I definitely need a girl with a nice smile. That's probably the most important part.
Thankfully, I'm dating a girl who meets all of the above mentioned criteria.
2006-10-20 08:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
For me? Overweight is not sexy for me. Some like it, but I don't.
Smell is a real put off if she smells funny or stinks.
Bad skin is a real put off.
B!tchy/bossy/attitude is bad. I'd probably cancel the rest of the date and take her home for that.
Too skinny is not good for me either, by that I mean like bony skinny.
Tomboyish, I like girls that are very feminine.
Stuck up, this is broad, but I don't know why people feel they have to be this way. If you don't wanna, a simple no, ty. would do it. You don't have to get crazy and throw a 50 word essay and choreographed dance number with a big NO attached to it. This type just makes me laugh.
2006-10-20 15:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant stand women who think they are the sh*t. Confidence is one thing, but when a woman walks around like she's better than everyone else it can be a little irritating to say the least. A major attribute that always attracts me is respect. When a woman respects others as well as herself and is confident, she will always be attractive in my eyes. Until I get to know her and she proves that shes just like the rest. I still have yet to meet a genuinely real woman (outside of family of course).
2006-10-20 15:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a good question because some men really don't know what they like.but as for me her mind is the main thing that needs to be wright,well manner not to the point were she is so nice that she all ways bite her tongue but not a trouble maker.if she doesn't play sports it doesn't matter but i will like for to at least exercise,height doesn't matter as long as she is not taller than me,by the way I'm 6ft3inch and her weight has to mach her height.one more thing since of humor because i love laughing and making other people laugh
2006-10-20 15:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by equality 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question to answer from the stand point of "every guy" because we are all different in what we like. Looks are only 50 percent of the game... I look for someone that I feel comfortable being with..
2006-10-20 15:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nollaig,
I'm serious, nothing is a bigger turn off than the girl being to arrogant and self centered. Men like attention just as bad as women do.
TDCWH
2006-10-20 15:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by TDCWH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman that thinks she is all that is a huge turn off to me. When I was single, if a woman acted like she was just the greatest thing and was stuck up, I dont care who she was or how she looked I wouldnt touch her.
2006-10-20 15:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Personally I like the women I like to be petit, around 5'3 and around 105-110, I like more spory women with a good sence of fasion, but thats just me, everyones different
2006-10-20 15:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personality and attitude is the biggest turn on or put off.
2006-10-20 15:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by omvg1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say the biggest turn-off is a lack of response to my approaches. That signals to me that it's all wrong and I should forget about that one. Turn-offs suck.
2006-10-20 15:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by justaguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋