Do I still have a chance to win this guys heart?
2006-10-20 08:14:32 · 18 answers · asked by bj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I just looked it up in the guy talk code book and what it means is that he wants to start over and be friends and see where it goes. Why do women always want to read more into what a guy says then what is there?
2006-10-20 08:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a sign the guy wants out but is not man enough to say WHY he wants out.
I think that he owes you an real explanation... When a guy says to a girl... I just want to be friends.. He hasn't answered the question for the girl, WHY?
If a guy sits you down and says, "I like these attributes about you... " Then he says, "Here are some of the attributes about you, that I don't like..."
Then he's giving you feedback of areas in which you need to grow in his opinion. He's not being harsh, he's trying to tell you areas where you need growth. If he stays with you, then you know he loves you.
However, if you don't do anything about those areas, then if he thinks they are serious enough for him to leave you. That means he loved you enough to give you a chance. He has the making of a really good friend, but you didn't heed the warning...
This guy just wants an easy, painless, unhealthy way out. He hasn't shown you the reasons why. He hasn't given you an opportunity to grow. So I don't think his heart was ever really in the relationship.
You're better off without him, even by his definition of a "friend"... He sounds like he's not much of a man, too immature for your needs.
Committed relationships are not for sissies...
2006-10-20 08:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means just what he says, let's start over, now that he has seen your good and bad parts of your personality. He feels that maybe the relationship with you is going to fast. So he is slowing up the seriousness of the relationship. Being a friend with you is not as serious as just being your friend. I almost forgot to mention...this also means you both will be free to date other people
2006-10-20 08:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you he needs a break from commitment. Being friends will allow him...and you to regroup your thoughts and feelings and find out if it's all worth it. Chances are you'll just stay friends, but it's not impossible for you to one day get back together. If you care...take the friendship offer. Be forwarned though...it's tough to go from lovers to friends...and even tougher to go back to lovers.
2006-10-20 08:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1] be clear on why you two came to this agreement and 2] yes, you have a chance to win his heart back.
When my ex b/f told me those exact words, I was hurt b/c we had been together for one yr but things were not going in the right directions.
I took it to mean that we were free to date other people and etc, he meant that it was a time for ME to prove my love to him and to show that I wanted him to be a part of my life and our future.
We have worked pass all of that and things seems to be going okay.
2006-10-20 08:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its means he dosnt wanna continue arguing with you ,& hopefully while you gys are friends you forget all abour him .You might have another chance to win him ova ,with your beauty,smarts,& your faminine wits but thats a might .
2006-10-20 08:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did not he never would have said lets start over and be friends.
2006-10-20 08:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have open doors. But no guaranty for happy ending - more just for used. But good luck if your heart is strong enough.
2006-10-20 08:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means stop arguing and restart. It won't work, the shadow of the argument will always be there if it's bad enough.
2006-10-20 08:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is telling u that he has moved on and only wants to be your friend better luck next time HUGS
2006-10-20 08:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋