My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I found out it was because his friends thought I took up too much of his time. I don't demand too much of his time, everytime we saw each other he wanted to also. I don't see why his friends got to be so selfihs and can't be understanding that I need attention too.
He wants to be with me but that's what's holding him back and now he's trying to push me away so I'll move on, but I love him. I think if I just give him more space it might help but I still don't know exactly what to do.
And what do I do while I wait? Because I feel really lonely and hurt. =/
2006-10-20 08:14:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember this: he doesn't tell his friends how much he cares for you. It will eventually come down to him deciding whether he wants to be with a great girl or his friends. Friends are nice, but, let's be honest. Imagine what's going to happen once his friends get gf's. Stay as patient as you can. He'll figure it out eventually. Try not to put a time frame on it.
2006-10-20 08:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, this is a guy talking (I'm 60 so I've been around). If the guy thinks more of what his friends think than he does how you feel, what makes you think it will ever work between you two. He has a lot of growing up to do. Yes, you need to give him some space, but not to the point that he makes you feel forgotten and lonely. Get over him and find someone who can put you first.
2006-10-20 15:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Doug R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a wimp to dump you for his guy friends told him too why couldn't he stay with you and you could of worked out a compromise with each other letting him see his friends during the week and you can see him one day out of the weekend something like that either way cut your losses and find a guy that won't break up with you for his friends told him so - you deserve better GF !!
2006-10-20 15:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm does he have a mind of his own? If he wanted to be with you then he would be. Unless his friends are holding him at gun point and keeping him from you. Seems to me that his friends are more important to him than you are.
2006-10-20 15:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his friends that made the decision for him. Either talk to him about it or find someone who makes up his own mind and doesn't allow his friend's to decide who he is.
2006-10-20 15:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by Julian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on move on move on. find a man that loves the time you spend with him and take from his friends. trust me the right one is out there, just be patient and he will come.
2006-10-20 15:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats good that you want to move on. just look for another guy that likes you and isn't to caught up with his boyz. i mean seriously who would want a boyfriend who cares more about his friends than you . thats just not right. you deserve more than that.
2006-10-20 15:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by hellodivasexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks likee his friends are more important to him than you are,if he wanted to be with you like you said then he would tell his friends he will share his time with you and his friends...move on cut your loses...
2006-10-20 15:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close that door so Mr. right can walk on through.
2006-10-20 15:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man isn't a man because he listens to his friends. Forget his butt.
2006-10-20 15:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋