Am 15 and never had a date?

Question

Or even kissed a girl or nothing. How much of a loser am I?

Answer 1

awwwww dont say that your not a loser...i know guys that are 24 and have never kissed either...dont worry your chance will come!

Answer 2

who said you are a loser? why do you have to be a loser because you never dated or been kissed . you are only 15 you are still suppose to be doing things like bike riding, hockey, basketball, please don't let peer pressure make you feel like a loser because your not . you have plenty of time for dating and girls anyway. to date you need a job so you can take your gf out not just sit at home and do things that will get you both in trouble . you are not a loser your only a teenager so go and do teen things and leave the dating until lets say maybe 16 or 17 those are dating years. lol

Answer 3

I didn't start dating until I was 15...and my boyfriend was 17 at the time and I believe I was his first girlfriend. I only had 3 relationships before I got married. Other people might have 3 boyfriends/girlfriends in the space of a week (like most of my friends).

Everyone moves at different speeds. If it bothers you that you aren't dating, go try and meet some people. If you're happy not dating, don't. You shouldn't be pressured because of what everyone else does.

I personally, do not think you're a loser, although I'm sure you'll get some negative comments on here. I think it's important to be who you are and stay true to it. Plus, it seems like kids nowadays move way too fast.

Hope that helps.

Answer 4

You are not a loser. Once you start to get a life than things will become more clear to you. When I say get a life...I mean "focus" on what it is you like or want to do in this world to become a better you. Once you are happy and accept yourself for whom you are... things, people, places and time will come at there own pace. Before you now it, you'll be out of college, on your own, an enormous success and then you will really be able to appreciate a good kiss let alone a good date. Don't be in a rush. Enjoy yourself now that you don't have to worry about someone else's hang-ups or down falls.

Answer 5

at the end of my 15th year was the first time i went on a date or got kissed. i thought i was a late bloomer, but now i realize that that was a perfect time for me. my best friend says the same thing, and she wasn't even kissed until she was 18!
the important thing is that it can be soooo much better if you are prepared for it, and sometimes that means waiting. trust me, you have lots of time, and will be greatful in the end that you didn't mess up and do something stupid when you were 13. NOT a loser!

Answer 6

You are a loser only if YOU think that you are. At 15, you are still young. There will be plenty of time for girls and romance and kisses and everything else. Enjoy your life!

Answer 7

You are normal. Your friend that say that they have date a lot of girls are probably lying.

BTW, if you think of yourself as a loser, then you will act with low self-confidence, and that turns girls off.

By the way, if you seem needy, overly shy, too awkward, or too nervous around people, then they will feel hesitant about speaking to you because they will feel like you are a person who is easily offended, and they will feel nervous talking to you. Approach people with a self-confident smile that implies that you already know that they will like you, and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy since your positive attitude will be catching. Make sure that you make consistent eye contact, because that implies interest in the other person (always flattering), and it implies self-confidence (the opposite of fearful & needy). Keep talking to different people, and you will soon become better at it. You will soon feel confident, since you will realize that it is not really all that difficult.

BTW, if you find yourself staring at a cute girl, and she looks up and sees you looking at her, do NOT do what most guys do; most guys in this situation will get shy and immediately look AWAY. If you read girls responses on Y!A, you will notice that this freaks girls out. If she sees you, ALWAYS maintain eye contact no matter how scary it seems, until SHE looks away. This makes you look confident. After that, do not keep looking at her. Ignore her and go talk to other people. She will probably come over and talk to you in order to see what's up.

Also, when you are talking to a girl, and you feel too shy to maintain eye contact, make sure that you look away by moving your eyes horizontally across the room as if you were looking for someone else. Do NOT look down, like most shy guys do (she will think that you are looking at her boobs, and get offended). If you do accidentally offend someone, don't be so apologetic about it that you look line a wimp (in the long run, women hate that). Just calmly say that you are sorry once and if she cannot drop it, then either tell her to drop it, or else find someone else to talk to.

Oh yea, try to develop a sense of humor. You want to come across as "fun", but don't crack jokes so much that you seem "goofy". Anything can be overdone. This may seem counter-initiative, but when you talk to a girl, try opening with a joke about something that she is wearing, doing, or looking at. Make fun of her a little. As long as it is funny, you will look confident for taking a risk by saying something that might possibly be offensive (she is unsure), and you will also seem fun for making her laugh. If she gets upset, just look at her calmly an say, it was only a joke.

Answer 8

Not a loser but a gentleman. a lot of boys out there are in some sore of rush to sleep with as many girls and date as many as possible cause they think that makes them the big S.H.I.T..

But that is not the case anymore, with so many ST D's and every one sleeping with everyone is not safe. Take it easy don't rush in to something you will regret later. The right time will come when is right and you will enjoy having that someone and be thankful you waited.

Good Luck and stay strong.

Answer 9

You are NOT a loser at all. You are very wise to wait for the right time and the right girl. Keep yourself pure until you get married, it is the BEST gift you could ever give your wife! There is nothing wrong with you! I admire your self control.

Answer 10

good for you.. dont be shamed.. i think thats great.. your not a loser.. do u know how hard it is to find a young man now a day that hasn't had a date or kissed someone before.. normally they've been with so many girls.. thats its almost scarey to even think of dating them.. i think your a great guy for this.. your time will come.. just wait for the right time.. u dont want it to be horrible.. u want it to mean something.. keep your head up sweetie.. your someone is out there.. you just haven't found her yet.. remember dont look for her.. she'll just appear...

Answer 11

your not a loser at all i have a bf ( my first and last meaning i am going to b w/ him 4 ever)and i am going on 16 and he is 18 i have never kissed him either cause my life dream is to have my first kiss at the altar even though it wont b his it will b mine and he knows that we both want to kiss each other cause we love each other and thats natural but i think it is really cool when a guy says i have never been w/ a girl it is embarassing cause that how it was w/ me but my bf thinks that is coll cuase i will do everyting first with him and him only!!!but you just stck with it and trust me dating girl after girl after girl is NOT as fun as you think just wait for the right girl she will come sooner or later!!!and trust me your time will come!!!!!