K so i dated this one boy the first 7 weeks of schooland always hung out with the boys on his floor above me so we all because great friends. Me and my boyfriend had a falling out and because i hve been so used to hanging out with this floor of guys i kept hanging out with them.
Don't get me wrong i am a good girl i keep my pants on, I just have this thing about kissing I love it. So I am constantly hanging out with these adorable guys and it would aways lead 2 me playfully making out with one of another.
So I have kissed about 5 boys including my x-boyfriend and I think they might be getting the wrong impression. I really like one of them but I think i ruinoned it because of this fact...guys talk.
I love hanging out with that floor there so much fun, but should I cool it and maybe stay off it 4 a week or so, let things fly over? think i have a chance still 2 date a boy on the floor? do u think they R messing with me?
2006-10-20 08:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry this is kind of long but I am curious 2 think what u have 2 say.
I know it's just like kissing but i have a feeling i am getting a bad rep?
Please don't be mean in your answers...
2006-10-20 08:10:07 · update #1
i think that you are putting yourself out there as the "easy one" not being mean, but you dont just go around kissing everyone. lol
try NOT kissing them! yea you could give it a week.. guys cant think that far anyway, you could come back with a fresh start! good luck!
2006-10-20 08:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by gracin_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, you may have to start dating outside your dorm. Because you've spent so much time hanging around these guys and making out with them, it's going to be difficult for them to ever see you any other way. Even if you take a cool off period, they are still going to think of you as easy. It's a good thing you keep your pants on because if you didn't, you wouldn't find a guy on campus willing to give you serious consideration as a girlfriend. Sorry, but when you hang around with a group of guys and you don't have any girlfriends, it makes guys think of you as either, "my buddy", or "my sometimes plaything". You need to find some females to hang with, or at least find a couple of girls to go with you to the guys dorm to hang. You've got 4 years on this campus, as an educated woman myself, I'm telling you if you don't do something to cool off your reputation now, you're going to have a miserable college experience.
2006-10-20 08:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by P. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just "be kissing", but it sounds like you need to relax a bit. Spreading yourself around like that in such a small group is going to get you a rep because, yes, boys do talk. While you haven't done anything too intense, people are going to expect you may simply because you are so freely physical.
I'd chill for a bit and find some new people to hang around. And if you do go back to these boys, tone it down a bit and try to restrict physical activity to whomever you're dating.
2006-10-20 08:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sativa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u probably do have a bad rep i mean im in middle school 8th grade and i have a bad rep for going out with my ex breaking up with him and going out with my best friend. which is retarded. but i think u should stop hanging out there for a while i mean u might not have messed it up with the guy but if u go out with him he might be expecting something from u other then the kissing. i mean to me thats no big deal the kissing but guys do blow it out of proportion. good luck.
2006-10-20 08:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by janet556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People talk sweetie. If he is worth it then he will take the time to see that you are not what Mr.Dumb and Mr. Dumber upstairs have been saying. Take it from someone who has all guy friends. The right man will understand and not be threatened. But once you have your man. Try to stop making-out with your buddies!! Good Luck.
2006-10-20 08:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by baby_girl_8881 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i'm not going to be rude, but don't worry because I have the exact same rep but its a little different. don't stop do what you want to do, girls just want to have fun! if you feel that things are getting complicated because of this, then yes, you should consider turning it down a few notches.
here to help, your friend, Marlene aka cvbabiekakes.
stay cool and have fun!
2006-10-20 08:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by cvbabiekakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well probably if you learn to control yourself and stop being such a little hoochie you can start clearing it up
2006-10-20 08:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by sexxxyback76593 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋